hey, everyone: a bit over a week ago, i came home and fellated The Husband. he told me to grab a condom (our only form of BC), and it took me a while as they'd been buried in the toy drawer. by the time i got back in bed to put it on him, and the wind had gone out of his sails. i fellated him again and got him hard enough to get the condom on, but it was like putting toothpaste back into the tube. he couldn't achieve another erection again, so we both went to sleep. the next morning, he said that he had some discomfort on the side of his shaft about 3/4" past the head (toward the base). i could see nothing, and told him i was sorry if i'd irritated him with the fellatio (i've never hurt anyone before doing that) or with the condom application. the 'discomfort' continued for a few days, and then moved to the inside. he said that the discomfort was at one spot in his urethra. then it moved back to the outside. he went to the doctor, and was told that since there was no acute pain or discharge or urinary issues, it was most likely NOT an STI. he had flu-like symptoms three weeks before and was giving an uber-dose of antibiotics in case it was bacterial. last night he told me that the discomfort was running longways down his penis from the bottom of the head to the shaft, and was 'outside' again. he won't let me touch it and says that it's constantly a dull ache. personally, i think it's all in his head as for the past three weeks he's been freaking out thinking he's had lyme disease, a stroke, kidney problems, a mild heart attack, a pinched nerve, and spider bites. he's NEVER been an attention whore, and has gone to the doctor only a handful of times in our 11-yr. marriage. his doctor won't prescribe anything until he gets bloodwork done and rules out STIs or a UTI or something viral, etc. i was just wondering if anyone had experienced a moving discomfort/pain in the penis? thanks so much for reading - i'm going batshit crazy here, and not getting any bedroom action! help!!!