So here's the story in short detail to save people time. I am Bi, but have dated girls all my life. Until recently, I have found that I am attacted to this guy. He's great and all and we've been talking for almost a year now but it got to a point where we liked each other alot and started sleeping together a couple of times. His story: was in a uh domestic relationship or that term that's used for "married" same sex couples. After 4 years as he told me they had decided to part ways. So I guess he was married, anyways, when I first met him back in Jan, he had told me he was gY and had a partner. But he didn't tell me he was like married. So I knew that he was having trouble with his partner and his partner had been cheating and had left with some way older guy, btw their aged 22 & 23 ans I'm 19. So throughout this time we've talked and done stuff together & I happened to like him a lot and he had told me the same thing. But, like every relationship that ends, time is needed to recuperate to move on. I understand that because I've broken up and time was needed to move on. So what my problem is that I don't know if I should continue talking to him and just ending everything. He's single now and has all his friends all up on him and I guess trying to sleep with him. I don't really care all about that since it's his business and not mine. I still feel bad about this one situation that happened to where I went to his to watch a movie & he invited his friend over for drinks. I didn't think much of it so I had a couple of drinks and was out for a while until I was woken up to get ready to sleep in for the night. We all shared the bed and I didn't think anything was to happen but i found out after it all happened, no sex btw just a heavy make out session and when I woke up he, the guy I talk too, well call him Mark, was down in his drawers ans his friend was naked. I was startled 'cause I has never slept in a bed with 2 guys were named. But I guess nothing happened between them because I woke up with 2 huge nicked that I had to hide for a couple of days So what i want to know is would I want to start a relationship with him? He says he wants a relationship but because I'm not experienced dating other guys that I would want some more and leave. But I don't understand why he said that because it happens either way if your straight or gay. He doesn't talk to me as much as he used too so I'm assuming that he's distancing himself from me... About 2 days ago he had asked me if I was ever in love. I had told him that I had not but I thought I was now. So what turned up to be a discussion about love turned to something ugly and he had stopped talking to me. I think he's great and I could see myself with him but because he cheated on his partner with me, btw he felt it wasn't bad because his partner would cheat on him too, and that's the only problem I have. I wouldn't know if HE would be the one that would want something more with someone else. So any advice?