HELP! i want oral!

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Really?! Why wouldn't any man want to give oral, I find this hard to believe.
It's not like this is something odd or extravagant, it's fundamental
There is nothing wrong with a man not wanting to eat pussy. Then dont turn around and expect a blowjob. Some women put up with this shit too.:cool: Look at LP. He eats so much pussy he coughs up fur balls in the morning. He is the master of the muff.
 

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I am indeed a muff whore. I first went down when I was 13 and I can see no good reason to come back up :smile:
i agree with you. It makes perfect sense to stick our heads in the same type of hole our heads came out of. You are like me Lp. I will go out of my way to please the woman. We get pleasure out of giving pleasure.:cool:
 

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I hate to inject the unthinkable, but I'm fairly certain that some guys just aren't that enthusiastic about it.

If that's the case here, the usual conjectures (it must be misogyny, or selfishness, or he "can't really be all that straight", etc) may or may not be true, but are beside the point. Anything which isn't a turn-on is perilously close to a turn-off.

Just a possibility.

True. there are men who dont like giving oral, same as im a woman who isnt particularly keen on recieving oral and id much prefer to give. But in most relationships it does have to be 50/50 as Danny said..there is no gettin' if there's no giving.

However the ladies boyfriend that started this topic, he sounds like he is scared rather than not keen. He's ex didnt enjoy and she didnt respond to weel the first time ...With a little practice and encouragement on her behalf im sure he would become a devoted Muff Diver
 

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I would just talk to him and tell him you really enjoy it (a lot :lol: ) Oral sex is a regular part of a normal healthy sex life.

so this question is for the ladies but guys feel free to jump in with advice as well. How to I get my boyfriend to give oral? im really curious about it but i don't know how to bring the subject up to my bf. i give him oral sex quite frequently and he loves it but has only offered to go down on me once and i was drunk at the time and had trouble getting off and since then he hasnt ever brought it up. he has mentioned to me that he has never really given oral because his only previous girlfriend wasnt interested. so i dont know if he doesnt want to give me oral cuze he doesnt like it or if he thinks i dont like it. i have hinted that i would like him to but have never really come out and said anything. so what should i do?
 

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I agree with LP and uncut. A man with a healthy attitude towards the woman he loves gets off on pleasing her. And this is one of the best ways to please a woman and really get in touch with her femininity. I do believe that the pleasure derived from this act is a learned experience for both parties involved. Experimentation is fun and can lead to new and better techniques. If you keep your initial expectations realistic he should develop into an accomplished muff diver.
 

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True. there are men who dont like giving oral, same as im a woman who isnt particularly keen on recieving oral and id much prefer to give. But in most relationships it does have to be 50/50 as Danny said..there is no gettin' if there's no giving.

However the ladies boyfriend that started this topic, he sounds like he is scared rather than not keen. He's ex didnt enjoy and she didnt respond to weel the first time ...With a little practice and encouragement on her behalf im sure he would become a devoted Muff Diver

I had an ex who was like that. She didn't enjoy receiving oral very much. I asked her why and she said "Because it was messy". Our relationship did not last long.

Life is a game of give and take.
 

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So a little more information about how my bf feels about giving oral sex. I decided to be brave and come right out and ask why he has never ventured south except once and he said it was because he really doesnt have a clue what he is doing and that there are much more effective ways of getting me off. from my understanding he does'nt do it because he isn't good at it...at least not yet, and he is one of those guys who wont do something unless they are perfect at it. I guess he doesn't realize that although he is really good at everything else I might just be curious about recieveing oral. I have dropped as many hints as possible abd he still isn't getting it which makes me think he is extremely clueless about my hinting, which actually is a possibility, or he just isn't that keen about it. :(. I guess the only way to find out for sure is to come right out and request it. I am just kinda shy about requesting stuff like that and am afraid that he might not want to. But I guess i wont know til I ask.
 

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jsut go and tell to him..this is how i always do. and in my experience he will do it.. i very rarely refuse to do it for my sex partner...indeed i lick the oral sex.
 

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So a little more information about how my bf feels about giving oral sex. I decided to be brave and come right out and ask why he has never ventured south except once and he said it was because he really doesnt have a clue what he is doing and that there are much more effective ways of getting me off. from my understanding he does'nt do it because he isn't good at it...at least not yet, and he is one of those guys who wont do something unless they are perfect at it. I guess he doesn't realize that although he is really good at everything else I might just be curious about recieveing oral. I have dropped as many hints as possible abd he still isn't getting it which makes me think he is extremely clueless about my hinting, which actually is a possibility, or he just isn't that keen about it. :(. I guess the only way to find out for sure is to come right out and request it. I am just kinda shy about requesting stuff like that and am afraid that he might not want to. But I guess i wont know til I ask.

Just do as one of the other women posters suggested. When he is kissing your neck or breasts gently and firmly push his head further south (hell now I even like that a little rough).

I can't really remember the first time I went down on a woman. But I am pretty sure I did not get into it or get very good at it right away. People tend to be better at things they get into. And knowing that the woman is enjoying it makes getting into much more exciting. So in your specific case it is like a catch 22. And you have to start somewhere.

I can remember looking at my gf's smooth and tanned thighs back in high school and just getting this urge to bury my face down there.
 

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I had an ex who was like that. She didn't enjoy receiving oral very much. I asked her why and she said "Because it was messy". Our relationship did not last long.

Life is a game of give and take.

For me and i guess maybe a few other ladies it has nothing to do with mess etc but about bring comfortable enough with our bodies to give that freely. I know most men say they dont care about it but when things like smell, taste apperance etc are worries going through my head it make the whole thing less appealing.
However once i am comfortable im more than happy to recieve oral but until then id much prefer fingers, toys or just to give.
 
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WOW, what a lucky guy. I am nearly addicted to giving oral. Hearing her moan is a tremendous turn on. The beauty of the woman's "situation down there" is also a tremendous turn on.

You may have to get involved in simply displaying your stuff in a relaxed setting, and investigate his curiosity. Is he curious? Is he interested in a real closup of your clit. Is he turned on by your scent? To me, the scene is addictive.

Ask him to check if you smell nice, by letting his get his nose real close. Then ask him if you taste nice? Take it slow, and demonstrate on him a little bit, reminding him to be gentle with your pussy as you are being to his meat.

Here's another treat for him, ask him to lay back while you screw his face, asking him to play with your nipples at the right time.

Hope all works out, and wish I was in his shoes with a needy lady. Thanks.
 

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sounds like he might be worried that he isnt doing it right since his previous gf didnt like it and you didnt get off the first time. Dont ask straight out as even guys get intimidated, id say the easiest lead in to it (same for any sexual want) is to put on a porn and say "That looks soooo good".

If he is your typical male he will already be turned on by watching it and will happily try and do it for you too.

I would go a step further on this great advice and say there are a good few sites that advise on oral techniques. I would open the link and say "what do you think on that?" or " I wouldn't mind some of that"
Another thing is to guide him as to where you want him to get to.

Look at it this way he is a pussy eating virgin so he is putty in your hands!
Mould him girl lol!
 

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so this question is for the ladies but guys feel free to jump in with advice as well. How to I get my boyfriend to give oral? im really curious about it but i don't know how to bring the subject up to my bf. i give him oral sex quite frequently and he loves it but has only offered to go down on me once and i was drunk at the time and had trouble getting off and since then he hasnt ever brought it up. he has mentioned to me that he has never really given oral because his only previous girlfriend wasnt interested. so i dont know if he doesnt want to give me oral cuze he doesnt like it or if he thinks i dont like it. i have hinted that i would like him to but have never really come out and said anything. so what should i do?

Have U tried using some peanut butter and jelly or whip cream with a cherry on top:tongue: :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
OK seriously... simply encourage and do a 69.
That's fair play unless he expresses the point he dosen't want to with reason. Find out where his head is...sorta speak (no puns intended)
Be Safe, Be Careful, & Enjoy!
Whopper-lee:smile:
 

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So I Finally Got Some!...Oral that is. It Was AMAZING!!!! I finally worked up enough courage the other night and I decided to tell him how much I enjoyed going down on him (I think that would make any guy more receptive to a request). So as I was describing how much I enjoyed his thick hard dick in my mouth I told him how curious it made me. He said "about what?" I told him that I was curious about being on the recieving end of oral and for a minute he just sat there. At first I thought he did'nt want to do it but then I realized he was just nervous about doing it right. So we took it really slow. He started by kissing me all over my body very very slowly moving downward until I thought I was going to explode. He finally got down to my privates and all I have to say is WOW! im either really really easy to please or he is a born natural pussy eater! or maybe both. but anyway it was one of the strongest most intense orgasms I have ever had! So know me and my bf are equally addicted to oral both giving and recieving and I could'nt be happier. Thanks everybody for your great advice. I appreciate it so much.
 

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so this question is for the ladies but guys feel free to jump in with advice as well. How to I get my boyfriend to give oral? im really curious about it but i don't know how to bring the subject up to my bf. i give him oral sex quite frequently and he loves it but has only offered to go down on me once and i was drunk at the time and had trouble getting off and since then he hasnt ever brought it up. he has mentioned to me that he has never really given oral because his only previous girlfriend wasnt interested. so i dont know if he doesnt want to give me oral cuze he doesnt like it or if he thinks i dont like it. i have hinted that i would like him to but have never really come out and said anything. so what should i do?

Like cockroaches with bug spray, you will grow immune to it over time and it will become harder to get off.

Have fun.