HELP! I'm having sexual fantasies about my boss!

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For starters, this isn't an erotic story but an actual cry for help and advice.

I'm a bisexual man who occasionally has sexual (and oddly supportive) thoughts about his boss. These thoughts don't hinder nor assist me in my work efforts. I just don't want to think sexual things about my straight, married boss.

To help with visualizing; I'm a black man in my mid to late 20s. My boss is a black man in his late 30s to early 40s. I'm a good inch or 2 taller than him with about 15 lbs more muscle as well.

Lately, I've been having thoughts of him becoming muscular like a bodybuilder. He has a boisterous personality; I think about him flexing his muscles a lot and wearing shirts revealing his pecs and abs. The catalyst for this transformation of his would be someone questioning his masculinity. These fantasies often occur when I see him wearing a t-shirt. He goes to the gym currently and has minor vascularity in his arms and a bit of potbelly: a dad bod. I don't know why I keep thinking of him getting muscular, but it gets me hard every so often making me feel inappropriate.

Has somebody else ever had fantasies like this? How did you make them stop? Please, help! I need to wear loose fitting clothes at work and it's difficult to hide boners with those!
 

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There's nothing wrong with fantasizing. I was very fortunate in that my fantasy became a reality. I eventually sucked him off every Friday after work, but that didn't happen until after we went on a conference and I hooked up with a friend of his. I told the friend I was hot for the boss and the friend told the boss. It worked out.
 

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Thanks for the replies so far. I guess it's normal to have crushes even at this age. I just can't help but get flustered over it. He's kind of an asshole in the work place: he losses his temper over small things easily, he talks down to others like they're idiots, he enjoys having annoying debates, and he takes pride in how many people don't like him at work. If it were anybody else I'd find him repulsive, but I just don't understand why I like the things I simultaneously don't like about him. And I feel silly when I find him physically attractive, too.

When I saw him today he was wearing long sleeve shirt that was kind of big on him. However, I noticed how his chest looked kind of bigger than usual and had more shape to it. Although it didn't get me hard, it made me want to get back in the gym. Seeing that bit of muscle on him really encouraged me.
 
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I think the reason I'm attracted to him is because he has power. Not just any power, though. Power over me. I struggle with doing the simplest of tasks at times but when he tells me to do something I never complain nor hesitate. How is it that he can make me do things better than I can for myself?

I feel like this adoration might just be admiration. He can be annoying and frantic at times, but he gets things done without caring what anybody thinks or says about him. I wish I were like that sometimes...
 
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He also reminds of a close relative who passed away. Mostly when he's stressed out and other shared mannerisms. He wears a lot of cologne and it can feel up a room. I think I'm going to wear cologne at work now. I have a habit of doing things to make myself like the people I admire.