Gecko4lif
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i would just like to add...don't be bitter.
it's not her fault that the person she grew into didn't fit your hopes and expectations. some guys, who share her values, would find her desires perfectly reasonable and perhaps even admirable.
i imagine she's feeling just as frustrated with you as you are with her, and by leaving her you'd give her the chance to find a man who'll love the person she is now.
who knows, maybe faced with losing you she'll reevaluate.
Thank you for all your input guys. Alot of you have suggested divorce and I would never consider it. I've told her in the past if she feels like that is what she needs to do it's her decision. I also told her that she can take every penny from me if she wanted too. I want to work on our relationship and make things better on the issues we are having. Most of the time (about 80% of it) we do have a great relationship. I know she loves me and I still am in love with her. I know I did take a huge roll in part of creating who she is now. I take responsibility of it. I gave her everything she ever wanted and needed. I'm not insecure, I have nothing to be insecure about. I have mostly everything that I need. The one thing that is missing is the person who I fell in love with. She's still there because I see it in the way she looks at me and smiles and holds my hand and tells me she loves me. But when we are not seeing eye to eye on thing she's back to being the "Monster"... maybe we should attempt counseling.
Thank you for all your input guys. Alot of you have suggested divorce and I would never consider it. I've told her in the past if she feels like that is what she needs to do it's her decision. I also told her that she can take every penny from me if she wanted too. I want to work on our relationship and make things better on the issues we are having. Most of the time (about 80% of it) we do have a great relationship. I know she loves me and I still am in love with her. I know I did take a huge roll in part of creating who she is now. I take responsibility of it. I gave her everything she ever wanted and needed. I'm not insecure, I have nothing to be insecure about. I have mostly everything that I need. The one thing that is missing is the person who I fell in love with. She's still there because I see it in the way she looks at me and smiles and holds my hand and tells me she loves me. But when we are not seeing eye to eye on thing she's back to being the "Monster"... maybe we should attempt counseling.
quick question, does she smile and hold your hand and show affection when you're about to buy something for her?