when you feel like you're about to come stop moving, bury you penis as deep as you can go and just stay there. kiss her, slow and deep. settle a bit more weight on her body... keep making out, caressing her in long sweeps along her sides, her thighs. the full body contact drives me crazy.
if a guy does this, i just melt into a malleable orgasmic puddle of girl flesh. being over filled and held down feels amazing. this building of body tension and urge for release. i get a chance to roll my hips, squeeze him with my muscles.. working his cock from the inside. the pressure on my fornix, with the pubic bone grind will make me cum without him moving. the muscle contractions and wriggle keep him rock hard.
when he finally moves again; usually pulling out, until just the head of his penis is stretching me open.. then drives back in with one powerful stroke. i'm done. completely floating on an orgasmic high that doesn't stop. any type of stimulation is enough to start the next wave.
for the guy i'm guessing it's like edging? buidling to orgasm, then stepping back without losing all the stimulation. over and over again until neither person can take anymore. least i hope so, it's greedy selfish on my part.. but it feels really good i won't complain.