Help make my night better

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by spitreaper, Aug 2, 2009.

  1. spitreaper

    spitreaper New Member

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    Well im going to see the girl tonight but i still feel i cum so early after 20 mins or so and i've been doing pc exercises but i was wondering if i can get anything to keep me hard for at least 30 mins and even after i cum.

    I can't get viagra or anything prescription drugs today. i also heard about something called "sex shots"? but i cannot find any info on it really.
     
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    Its a little late, sorry, but if you go to your local sex shop they usually have all sorts of pills. Ask if any of them are the real deal. I was recommended some red ones called "night storm" or something stupid like that. I don't know if they worked, but it might be worth a shot.

    cheers
     
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    oh just have fun, whether you're hard for 20 minutes or 2 hours. just go with it.
     
  4. D_Parkinsonne Partycocke

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    Do what you've got to do dude... But, why not just do it more than once? I last a while, usually like a half hour, and at most around an hour. So my girl and I do it, relax a bit, and do it again... Usually I only need a few minutes break in between, plus the second or later times always take longer to finish... And you get laid again too... Who doesn't want that? LOL!

    Just food for thought... and like sexplease said- just have fun!
     
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    slow down???
     
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    Enjoy the first opportunity and then relax and go for it again.

    I suspect that you are young enough to recharge rather quickly.
     
  7. sexplease

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    Sometimes I 'clean the pipes" within an hour or so of a sex encounter. Then, when I'm with a partner I do last much longer. and it seems much more intense.
     
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    The normal length of sexual intercourse for humans is from 15 to 20 minutes including preliminary.
     
  9. B_adkin

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    You can try to use some pills, but to be completely sure about them, you'd better consult with a doctor.

    By the way you can do it here (link removed)
     
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    It sounds like you mean that you last 20 minutes of actual fucking... That's actually not bad. Just add other things into the evening. Go down on her, lick her tits, and other things that aren't directly stimulating you penis. then when you get to the fucking part, stop when you think you're getting close and do something else for a while... maybe even take a little break while you gently stroke her pussy. One of the hottest things to do (in my opinion) is to get both of you to where you are almost to the point of cumming and then stop and go out to dinner... the anticipation is great and it will also 'train' you to last longer over time. Just take it a little slower stud... you're not at the breeding ranch. There's something to be said for the quicky when that's what you both want, but most women like a man with a slow hand... especially when you take into account that women take longer to get turned on, but once there they stay that way a lot longer than men and can cum about as often as they want to.
    Garg MAn
     
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    ugh it was bad.... i can;t even last like 5 minutes and we went for a second round maybe 20 minutes after and i lasted 2 minutes ugh whatever i give up
     
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    Hahaha, don't feel bad man. My first time after a two year break, I came as she lowered herself on me. Two minutes later, I got about ten strokes and it went off again. That was with a condom on both times. :eek:

    I spent every free minute the whole week masturbating going for as long as I could. By the next weekend, I was so sick of cumming, we had sex for about an hour and a half.
     
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    No shit eh... Im edging myself now while masturbating for at least 30 minutes and wow i cum hard at the end. My girlfriend just lefted on a trip to Saskatchewan so im trying my best to improve myself.
     
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    when you feel like you're about to come stop moving, bury you penis as deep as you can go and just stay there. kiss her, slow and deep. settle a bit more weight on her body... keep making out, caressing her in long sweeps along her sides, her thighs. the full body contact drives me crazy.

    if a guy does this, i just melt into a malleable orgasmic puddle of girl flesh. being over filled and held down feels amazing. this building of body tension and urge for release. i get a chance to roll my hips, squeeze him with my muscles.. working his cock from the inside. the pressure on my fornix, with the pubic bone grind will make me cum without him moving. the muscle contractions and wriggle keep him rock hard.

    when he finally moves again; usually pulling out, until just the head of his penis is stretching me open.. then drives back in with one powerful stroke. i'm done. completely floating on an orgasmic high that doesn't stop. any type of stimulation is enough to start the next wave.

    for the guy i'm guessing it's like edging? buidling to orgasm, then stepping back without losing all the stimulation. over and over again until neither person can take anymore. least i hope so, it's greedy selfish on my part.. but it feels really good i won't complain.
     
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    Hell, forget the technique during fucking, I came just reading that.

    But then, I'm a big secret fan of ML.
     
  16. powerbook06

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    Me too. This is why your advice is not going to work with men like me.

    If I am to the point to ejaculate, pushing my penis deep and starting kissing is guaranteed to "finish" me. Probably I am somewhat more sensitive than normal in the lips.

    Besides I always was very quick (2-3 min if I would not try to last longer; or, if the foreplay was very exciting, I could finish in the penetration phase). It took me much time and effort to acquire some control, part of which was frequent (daily) sex with the same girl. I am not sure even at my age what would happened if I tried another partner.
     
  17. MickeyLee

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    :redface: i can see how that might be a problem.

    have you tried something like a Fleshlight STU (stamina training unit)? i'm guessing it's the DisneyLand of Penis. a few threads/post by men on this board swear by using the fleshlight to help with ejaculation delay.
     
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    Hey go to gnc get the vitamin B12 take it every night before bed it will have go to bed and weak up with a woody! I learned this from a black male stripper and you know anything about those guys their dick always have to be on!
     
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    If you go down on her promptly she won't even notice it's 20 minutes...
     
  20. powerbook06

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    No, I haven't tried anything beyond regular sex and masturbation. But the point is moot since I am not active anymore. Moreover, I am afraid I am a little sensitive down there to use such devices.
     
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