Help Me Get Hard!

[D_Charlie_Chubtugger]

Not sure what my issue is...but hopefully someone can help me out.

When I am with a woman I get hard no problem....in fact it gets very hard! I wish I could get like that at other times too! I can't get hard unless I am with a woman! When I am alone and want to jack-off or take pics, etc., I can't get hard! I could be super horny and haven't shot a load for days, but still can't get hard unless I have a girl there.

What is my deal?! I know it is probably something psychological, but wondering if anyone has the same issue or has any ideas. How does everyone else get hard? Please help me out.

 

[basque9]

I think your little hangup is beyond the realm of we mere mortals on this site. You might want to consult a therapist, Krusher. I am absolutely clueless how you went suddenly from a horny, masturbating teenager to the point where you switched to having sex exclusively with women!

 

[sykray]

As a therapist, I agree with you that it is psychological. Only detailed discussion would result in a clear picture of the cause - and a solution.

I guess that it may be that activities other than masturbation have taken a very strong priority in your arousal process or it is the actual intimacy of being with a woman rather than the fantasy that is now more likely to turn you on.