Help me understand please!

[C41ara]

I don't think the best or most mature answer to his attitude is "I open a profile too and post nude photos to make him jealous" but this is just my advice, i don't know your relathionship. Try to talk, not just start a "web war".

And most of all, if he likes getting public attentions from other girls while he's still with you, maybe, just maybe, he's an asshole, and I say this with all due respect to you

 

[959101]

maybe you could try browsing his post history to get a better understanding of what it is he wants here?

 

[Betty_Cocker]

Is he simply an exhibitionist? Or is he a serial cheater?

I'm not sure having him delete/remove his profile is the answer. Why?
1. You know about this site. At least knowing he's here you can both enjoy his exhibitionism together ..and you have an idea of what he's up to.

2. The only way his account can be deleted is if he does it himself. If he's a serial cheater ...he will return under another name...and you won't know.

Of course honesty is the best policy and seems you and he have to work on some trust issues.

What has been said so far is true. It would be very difficult....but not impossible...for him to actually hook up with a girl here.

I've been here off and on for over 7 years and not one time did I offer up unsolicited nudes via andom private messages.
If he's getting "tons" of these, it's a safe bet that most are either a) men posing as women or b) women using Internet pix ....catfishing. maybe one or two are from genuine women trying to meet up.

I suggest you talk to him about what his needs are and whether or not you can meet his needs or work together (as a couple) to meet them.

 

[rtg]

Sounds like a healthy relationship....

You both probably need to just talk to each other and sort out your issues....

 

[Uncutpete]

Betty and I often wind up on opposite sides of certain issues, but I would like to question the unexamined jealousy. I'm not sure what your BF desires, but perhaps it is best to really talk to him about it. That might involve questioning yourself and the things that bother you, as well as questioning him about posting on here and his previous "cheating." Maybe what is best for your relationship is honesty, and not a regime of authoritarian monogamy, in which any thought of sex with another person is a violation. Just raising a possibility.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Also, you can't delete your account. You simply stop signing in.

 

[Mercurygirl]

Hi, I'm new to this and actually signed up because I recently found out that my boyfriend is a well known member and I'm trying to understand. I'm not here to judge anyone, I am here because I love my boyfriend and I want to try to be okay with this if I can be. He cheated on his girlfriend before me and for me he has stopped talking and chatting with girls he knows and snapchat girls because it bothers me. He told me he felt this was the best option for him to still get the attention and thill he craves without any intention of doing anything. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!! I feel lost right now.

I'm afraid you're too late, a guy named Wally pounded him (em, nubbed him) with his tiny pecker during a hotel hook up a couple weeks back. The photos made for quite the scandal around here.

Apparently your boyfriend thought he was hooking up with a middle aged divorcée and mother of two named Wallifina. Even mistook Wally's penis for a deformed clitoris.

But look on the bright side, your boyfriend said that the experience with LPSG's resident SPH king was more unremarkable than the sex he was currently having with his naive significant other.

That's a good thing ... right?

 

[TheRob]

He had all kinds of girls sending him messages and pics and asking to chat unfortunately.

I really appreciate everyone's comments and advice... I am taking it to heart and putting my own profile up and adding the pics made him jealous and I learned a lot.

He made the decision to submit his profile to be deleted so as soon as I see it gone I'll be deleting mine as well. I am hoping for the best but not following blindly. Good luck to all, have a great weekend!

your relationship will fail you are overly controlling
you are right to ask him not to talk to girls he thinks he might cheat with but you want to control too much when you want him not to be on a website where virtually all of the girls are like 1k miles away
you don't have the confidence to be in a relationship right now

 

[TheRob]

I am sure dudes are hooking up with dudes on here all the time. But there aren't a lot of women hooking up with dudes. Having been a female here for 10 years, I can count on one hand how many real women here have hooked up with a man on here from lpsg.

well you can only count the ones you have known about
but the numbers are likely quite low
but according to the o.poster what counts as hooking up could be anything so maybe she considers phone sex or whatever to count
I did make a few irl friendships from the site tho

 

[TheRob]

I don't think the best or most mature answer to his attitude is "I open a profile too and post nude photos to make him jealous" but this is just my advice, i don't know your relathionship. Try to talk, not just start a "web war".

And most of all, if he likes getting public attentions from other girls while he's still with you, maybe, just maybe, he's an asshole, and I say this with all due respect to you

he could also just be a regular human being.....
attention is vastly different from ass...

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I'm talking about penis in vaginas hooking up.

 

[deleted871301]

So what's his profile name?