Help Me With This Please

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Knight,
Dr. Rock has it down... She wants to see other people, there is no saving a relationship after that. I have seen this a hundred times, you guys had a good time while it lasted, now you are apart, she wants to move on but she doesnt want to hurt you. Young love can not withstand the crushing effect of distance. Chalk it up to experience and move on...
As for the pregnacy thing, unfortunatly, that complicates things. What ever you do, dont get married because your too young and it wont last! Sorry if I seem cynical, but I have seen this too many times. My high school sweetheart used to pull the late period thing on me every couple of months, used to drive me nuts!
Know what I did? I married her... years later, when we had both matured. We are still together...
 

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Thanks. So it is officially over today lol. I asked her about all these days she has booked up and I wanted to go down to see her one last time, she didnt though. When she was going out every night last week, it was with a lad called Craig. She told me not to worry, he was gay o,O

Anyways turns out he isn't gay, and next Saturday, which is usually the day I would go down, she's going with him into town while he gets a tattoo (he's 18 and she says its for his birthday). That was basically it. Strangely though, after that all she kept sayin was 'youre jealous aren't you?' I mean a lot...I told her I wasn't jealous cos we weren't goin out anymore. She said she didn't do anything with him though and she 'wouldn't dare', if she wasn't interested she wouldn't go out with him so much.

I'm not jealous, just hurt I guess but I'll live. I told her she'd find other boys, who live closer to her. She said no she wouldn't and I was 'the one'. But still she doesn't know what she wants. I told her I was happy when I was going out with her and she should give me a ring when she finds out what it is she wants and we can talk if I'm free :p

But yeah it's finished now. Best for both of us really. She still hasn't got a test though...she says she'll get one soon.