idesofmarch
Experimental Member
Waht you get here, is lot's of guesses. None of us are doctors, so that's all we can do.
All those explanations sound like excuses, and very much like me in my younger days. I did knitting, cleaning, and anything to get my boyfriend to sleep so I didn't have to have sex with him. This only, because I wasn't ok with my sexuality. I wanted to, but was brought up in a way that I felt dirty and ashamed about it all the time.
I married the first time when I was 29, and my husband was 14 years older. He finally got me to understand that there was nothing to be ashamed of.
I don't know what advice to give, even suggesting therapy might hurt her feelings, but if you tell her how much you love her and agree to go there with her, she might agree.
I really hope you find a solution, and big hug to you, take care!
All those explanations sound like excuses, and very much like me in my younger days. I did knitting, cleaning, and anything to get my boyfriend to sleep so I didn't have to have sex with him. This only, because I wasn't ok with my sexuality. I wanted to, but was brought up in a way that I felt dirty and ashamed about it all the time.
I married the first time when I was 29, and my husband was 14 years older. He finally got me to understand that there was nothing to be ashamed of.
I don't know what advice to give, even suggesting therapy might hurt her feelings, but if you tell her how much you love her and agree to go there with her, she might agree.
I really hope you find a solution, and big hug to you, take care!