HELP! my gf wont have sex with me!! :(

[bigdog83]

My god, are you dating my girlfriend?! lol
Mine is 30, and our average is once every 4-6 weeks, I'm about done with that kind of intervals I must confess. Most of those excuses I've heard too.

Part that really ticks me off though, I knew her back in high school and she was a bit like the energizer bunny back then (with her boyfriends, aka not me), and now I get her... and she's bored with sex. Blah! lol

shes not bored with sex, shes bored with you. if she was crazy about you before, she would have fucked your brains out also.

op, was she ever crazy about sex? maybe its just dieing?

 

[DasLeezard]

I've been in both your shoes, sexually speaking.

On her end: sounds like depression. That'll do that... does she get to spend time with friends? Oddly enough, counseling helps. For she who is in denial about counseling, I recommend a good dose of letting her have some alone time to pursue a hobby.

On your end: Be more supportive. Bugging her will probably lessen your chances anyway. I recommend some good fap material, a strong grip, and some patience to you.


Sorry if I sound a little odd.. I'm pretty baked right now

 

[dolfette]

shes not bored with sex, shes bored with you.

you don't understand women at all.

 

[petite]

She may just not enjoy sex very much. Not all women are the same. Different women have different sex drives. I've dated two men with lower sex drives than me and sex is very important to me. I also tried everything to "spice up" the relationship. Nothing worked and it was a waste of time. Now I think that if your sex drives aren't compatible, then you just aren't compatible together! You can't change someone else's sex drive. I don't think it's shallow to want a satisfying sex life in your relationship. I think that's normal, especially for a person with a high sex drive.

Every guy I've been in a LTR with has asked me to marry him, and a lot of men I've only dated for a short time have also asked me to marry them. Security has had no effect on my sex drive.

No matter how long I've been with a partner, the only times I don't want sex with my partner is when I'm furious at my partner over something he's done or said. I never have angry sex. Sometimes when he's made me mad I'm also really horny, so then I also get mad that I don't want to have sex with him when I'm so horny, so that stupid thing he did or said is now preventing me from getting laid, too. :tongue:

 

[bigdog83]

you don't understand women at all.

What is your feeling then behind that situation?

 

[D_Yotonne Yogurtcannon]

I had this one girl, she was a total performer, a little social performer, which a lot of girls are, anyways we were out at a club or something. I was dancing. And kissing her a bit, one of her ex-bf's hit me in the face without warning. Then he called me a nigger. I was stunned... like wtf?! stunned. anyways, because of the fight I was kicked out, and so was he. She took me home, we talked about the fight, and everything, she bought me a pizza or some shit, meanwhile I am bleeding from my eye, and we laid down together and then she looked at me and said, "good night!" I was like, "wait... I went through all this to get a slice of pizza and lay down next to you so you could make some of your exes jealous?" I waited to see how she behaved afterwards. She ran into me in the street, she was on a bicycle, she called out my name, I asked her to come across the street and talk to me a bit, she didn't, she said she had to go meet her landlord and pay her rent. I cut her the fuck out and told her why. Cause she was fucking stupid. And the sex was awful too. She didn't breath and would just kind of look at me in the face with a stunned look. Meanwhile I would feel more and more disconnected from whatever she could possibly be experiencing. FUCK THAT SHIT!

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Oooo, bitter much?

What has this got to do with this thread?

 

[dolfette]

And the sex was awful too. She didn't breath and would just kind of look at me in the face with a stunned look.

maybe you were shit in bed and she was bored.:smile:

 

[oddeyeblu]

Leave her before she leaves you and takes you for everything she can.
She probably has a GF on the side.

 

[Drifterwood]

Not all women are love goddesses. I don't know why this continues to surprise men.

 

[dolfette]

because porn lies!

 

[Drifterwood]

So do fairytales.

Should we let go of the desire / presumed need for the fantasy?