Ok people I need some help/advice....
So there is this girl that I have been friends with for a while now and I started to like her. Well 2 weeks ago I decided to make my feelings known to her and after I told her she hugged me and told me "I'm not saying no, I just have to think about it". So a week goes by then we talk and she tells me that she cant tell if the feelings she has for me are leaning more towards friendship or something more, and that it would be a "risk" to date me because she doesn't want to lose me as a friend. She ultimately ends up saying that she wants to just stay friends and I tell her I am ok with that.
So a day goes by without us seeing each other, then friday I see her at an event me and my friends were at, it was a little awkward at first because we saw each other but didn't speak. So later that night my friends and I decide to go out to the bars, and as it turns out so was she. We pregamed at a friends house and the girl I liked was also there, things were still awkward but we at least spoke to each other then.
Once out at the bars I saw her again with her friends we didn't really talk much. As the night went on I had gotten drunk and she had to and we finally talked to each other. She told that she felt like a bitch and that she thought I was awesome and started to hug me. Later in the night she asked me to go to another bar with her, during this time she proceeded to tell me I was awesome and how she was sorry. Once we arrived at the other bar we had two shots and she grabbed my hand and we held hands on the way out. As we were riding home she started to rub my leg and we started to cuddle, when we made it back home we kept cuddling and she started to kiss my hand, after a while we both fell asleep on the same couch. We talked about it the next day and she told me she didn't wanna stop that night because it felt "comfortable". My friends tell me shes trying to play me, but I think she is just confused, but I don't really know. What do you guys think?
Any response would be appreciated.
So there is this girl that I have been friends with for a while now and I started to like her. Well 2 weeks ago I decided to make my feelings known to her and after I told her she hugged me and told me "I'm not saying no, I just have to think about it". So a week goes by then we talk and she tells me that she cant tell if the feelings she has for me are leaning more towards friendship or something more, and that it would be a "risk" to date me because she doesn't want to lose me as a friend. She ultimately ends up saying that she wants to just stay friends and I tell her I am ok with that.
So a day goes by without us seeing each other, then friday I see her at an event me and my friends were at, it was a little awkward at first because we saw each other but didn't speak. So later that night my friends and I decide to go out to the bars, and as it turns out so was she. We pregamed at a friends house and the girl I liked was also there, things were still awkward but we at least spoke to each other then.
Once out at the bars I saw her again with her friends we didn't really talk much. As the night went on I had gotten drunk and she had to and we finally talked to each other. She told that she felt like a bitch and that she thought I was awesome and started to hug me. Later in the night she asked me to go to another bar with her, during this time she proceeded to tell me I was awesome and how she was sorry. Once we arrived at the other bar we had two shots and she grabbed my hand and we held hands on the way out. As we were riding home she started to rub my leg and we started to cuddle, when we made it back home we kept cuddling and she started to kiss my hand, after a while we both fell asleep on the same couch. We talked about it the next day and she told me she didn't wanna stop that night because it felt "comfortable". My friends tell me shes trying to play me, but I think she is just confused, but I don't really know. What do you guys think?
Any response would be appreciated.