help please...any tips?

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  1. big1xxx

    big1xxx New Member

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    I know my name says big1 but I'm actually like 6" long 2" wide hard(my fantasy is to have a big1 lol). So any tips on how to make a girl cum in my situation. I do eat and everything else but how do I make her cum first?
     
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    U should be perfectly ok to make her cum. Can u be more specific?
     
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    physically your size should get the job done

    your question in this case becomes VERY open ended. Weith many answers. So i'll touch base on some areas

    Maybe u just need to acquire more skill from practice. Have her be more open with what she enjoys. Such as exploring more positions that she enjoys, or just learning the basics of how to physically move and perform.

    One of the biggest things really is making her feel comfortable, fully ready, and having a full open and free dialog before, and during sex. I wound up girl, that feels insecure or unsure about what's going to happen or is happening is not going to let herself get immersed into the situation.

    (i new a girl who had never had an orgasm before. said guys saw it as a challange and tried many of times oral and other wise to make her climax as if she was just some sort of mechanism like a lever to pull. I had been dating her for a while, and i told her that i too have a similar problem and do not often ejaculate during sex because of the condom...that i prefer to just enjoy the feeling, and have a good time. this allowed her to just experience and enjoy it instead of over thinking it... eventually after a couple of times she began to have orgasms, more and more regularly)

    For some girls it can be as simple as in and out simple stimulation. Others prefer it rough, others want it soft, and gentle. Some need the clit to be stimulated, while some want (or need in some cases) anal play... there are many other variations ... although they may seem small, and trivial, to each woman it's part of their ecstasy and pleasure... there is no REAL bag of tricks that can be quickly tought my friend
     
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    Lots of foreplay. Talk nicely about the sex, not nasty or rough. Ask her if what you are doing feels good. Don't do like the porno - they are usually too crzy and are more about the show than intimacy. Look her deeply in the eyes. Caress her all over and tell her what you think of her body. Don't just massage the tits or clit. When you do insert, go very very slow into her. Come back out really slow as well. Keep this pace for a long time. When you go in, go in low, to the back of the vagina. When you come out, rub along the top or her vagina. Again, really slow , deep, and full - not fast and shallow. If she is really hot and excited, she may do like my wife and want to take control. If we're doggy, she starts the thrusting - real deep. If I'm on top, she wants to mount me and she goes real deep on top. Seems that when we do things right, we come together which is super sweet.
     
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