Help Please!!!

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  1. duck08

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    Hey guys, I'm 22 years old. I'm very confussed right now and don't know what to do. I have messed around with guys, sucking and jerking each other off. I have never dated a girl, but i have had sex with one and messed around with a few others. I find myself jerking off to guys porn, along with thinking about the girl i fucked, and some of my buddies. I don't know what to do...Is this normal??? I am shy and trust me I find many girls very very attractive and would love to go talk to them, i'm just shy, what should I do!? PLEASE HELP!!!!
     
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    Mate, take it on the chin you could be bisexual. At least you have twice the choice of many others!
     
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    Get some pussy. Dont even think about anything else. Go online, let your friends know you need it. Then when you try it again and again you will have a better idea of what turns you on. Variety is the spice of life.
    Maybe your Bi, and can enjoy both sexes,best of luck!
     
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    The OP wants to focus, and you guys aren't helping.

    If you're young and pressured and find things a little complicated, you should find out what you really want to do and find out what you like.

    And growing up is complicated, no matter what age you are.
     
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    seeing a therapist is one option you can consider
     
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    You are gonna have to figure this one out by yourself. Date girls when you feel you are attracted to pussy or to the girl. Date guys when you feel attracted to a guy or guys or to dick. I have been in many hetro relationships and many gay relationships. Been married (hetro). I have had MMF MFM and MFF sex and loved em all. That's why I am bi. I love to love them all.
     
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    I'd suggest that you spend some time alone and think about what you like and what turns you on sexually. You can see and attractive man with a nice tool and just think "that's nice." It's another thing if "you want that nice tool."

    You need time to think and reflect on yourself. After you've thought your life away, then you should be able to make an executive decision about your orientation for personal comfort. And while you're thinkin', be honest with yourself. That's the only way that you'll find an answer.

    Peace:cool:
     
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    I think Josh summed it up the best. If you're attracted to a girl, go for her. If you're attracted to a guy, go for him. Just try not to make the mistake of dating/screwing them both at the same time, cos that can often get ugly - unless they want a threesome.

    It's nothing to get too hung up about. Many guys are attracted to both sexes to some extent. If you're 50-50 and not hurting anyone, go for both. It doubles your opportunities for fun/sex. Just be safe and enjoy it.
     
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    i like watching hot news chicks and drool over many other women so i know i am not gay...sucking cock has never been a desire of mine or smelling a guys ass..you sound very gay but maybe you should go to one of those overpaid psychologist or sex therapists, they could probably help you out more than most of us could...dont be shy, youre just another patiient to them they would totally forget about...unless you didnt pay the bill...that is their job anyways, dont be self conscious...it is like when nurses talk about seeing naked bodies, all assholes look alike
     
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    Duck 08: I've had relationships with both sexes. As I got to the end of my 20s, I realized that I'm hotter for guys than gals. Just enjoy your life and don't worry about the labels. As long as you practice safe sex, you'll be fine. As far as shyness, the best way to make new friends is through your hobbies. I'm a cyclist, and most of my friends are riding buddies. So far, they're all straight, but I'm likely to one day find a riding pal that bats for the same team!
     
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    Do what feels right. Don't freak! Try to be yourself, you'll be surprised what comes your way!
    Peace, Love and Happiness!
     
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    Deal with your shyness around women. Trying to label or classify your sexual orientation is not very helpful.
     
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    Well, you like women and men. Lucky you. :smile:
     
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    To be honest, it doesn't matter. There is a difference between what gets you off and what you get off with. Some people are aroused by the same sex. I would put money that we all have been at least once in our lifetime. The thing is, you just need to figure out if you would rather be with a guy, girl, or ride the fence and be with both.
     
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