TopheavyTeen: Hello all I need some help/advice. I have just recently been involved with a guy that is not only on the pretty darn big side but he is also very curved to the right. During intercourse it bumps into the side alot and sort of presses it deep towards what I would gather is my hip. Kinda of painfull. Anyone have experience or advice? I would love to continue this realationship but do not wish to be uncomfortable everytime we are intimate.