HELP! Should I get into porn??

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Milwjocknow mate the reason I asked is because I genuinely am in a financial struggle, but by all means feel free to lecture me on what my true intentions are.

Barcelona, you would be wise to not take any advice or take anything seriously from milwjocknow now or ever in the future. He tends to be the most miserable, hostile, mean spirited, and nasty member on this website. I think most members here long ago learned to ignore him and not take him seriously.

I do not know what his problem is or if he is just a tired old bitter queen, or whatever the fuck is going on with him, but he loves to troll these forums with his opinions, which are always "fact" and nothing is ever correct except what he thinks and says. And when anyone disagrees with him he tends to resort to nasty and juvenile name calling and fighting, thinking he is clever or somehow winning the argument.

Again, he is just a giant troll on LPSG so please ignore whatever and anything he has to say as it is pretty much worthless and useless. And like most trolls, I think he just spreads his vitriol in order to get a rise out of everyone. I am pretty sure most people here ignore him so you would be wise to join them. Honestly I am surprised he was not banned a long time ago.
 
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Now to answer your original question, I would not recommend you do porn as you seem highly worried about being discovered.

There is nothing wrong with doing porn, but it is not nearly as glamorous as people may think it is. Just like any job, you have to work long and hard if you actually want to make good money. The porn stars who make the real money are the ones who have been working for years promoting themselves, possibly escorting as well, and have most likely done dozens of scenes. Sadly, most people in porn do not achieve the fame or "career" of someone like a Brent Corrigan or James Dean, to name a few.

As other people have suggested, there are other ways to do money besides porn. There is nothing wrong with doing porn, but it does not sounds like the path you truly want to take.
 

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I forgot to mention catering gigs... In college years and after, partly because I got to know a lot of great waiters and bartenders, I got to know some high-end caterers, whose specialties were wealthy peoples' weddings, holiday parties, bar and bat mitzvahs, anniversaries, election parties, etc.

It might sound tedious, but actually it was usually kinda energetic and fun, often in amazing places, homes or even on yachts, time passed quickly, and often for only 4 hours of my time I'd walk away with $150 bucks or more in tips, plus my hourly wages, (plus, usually a big doggy bag full of left-overs!).

I don't know where you are living, Barcelona92, but try to find out which caterers in your area have the best reputations and largest crews, and I bet they will need more people for their big events. If can you turn on the charm, can pour a glass of champagne and/or beer properly, and aren't squeamish about "cleaning-up the aftermath", they might want your help more and more.

Worth looking into, I think.

A/B
 
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Better get into escorting...

So far, he has made no indication that:

A.) He's interesting in "escorting", to begin with,

and

B.) That he's even interested in men.

Since the vast majority of escorts are hired by men, I assume that that is what you guys are talking about, and not the rather rarefied world of escorts only hired by women... Not sure. But, basically, it's all prostitution, so not very attractive on a resume.

A/B
 

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Barcelona, you would be wise to not take any advice or take anything seriously from milwjocknow now or ever in the future. He tends to be the most miserable, hostile, mean spirited, and nasty member on this website. I think most members here long ago learned to ignore him and not take him seriously.

I do not know what his problem is or if he is just a tired old bitter queen, or whatever the fuck is going on with him, but he loves to troll these forums with his opinions, which are always "fact" and nothing is ever correct except what he thinks and says. And when anyone disagrees with him he tends to resort to nasty and juvenile name calling and fighting, thinking he is clever or somehow winning the argument.

Again, he is just a giant troll on LPSG so please ignore whatever and anything he has to say as it is pretty much worthless and useless. And like most trolls, I think he just spreads his vitriol in order to get a rise out of everyone. I am pretty sure most people here ignore him so you would be wise to join them. Honestly I am surprised he was not banned a long time ago.


You certainly take a lot of time and energy responding to someone you don't know, don't you, honey.

Did you bother to notice that we agree? You idiot?
 

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I would never do anything more than a solo and fleshlight fucking, if I were you.

STD's and all the baggage that come with sex with another person. Plus, enemas, etc. - not glamorous. No one has a perfect body - and porn stars are no exception. They're all flawed in many places, even if you think one is very sexy. You see this when up-close-and-personal with them.

Making hard-core porn comes with a damaged reputation (shoudn't be like that, but...). And there is an element of danger in the industry, too (more for women, but still...).

If you just want to show off your big dick, I wouldn't suggest full-on porn - JO is fine,...or Playgirl, etc. So must less baggage and risk. And you don't get the same damage to your reputation, either, as it's not hardcore. Least risk: don't show your face.
 
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I'm going to end my contributions to this original post with this note. Unless otherwise requested, or encouraged by a few ridiculous members who seem unable to listen to the truth. . I will remain quiet.

My advice comes with quite a bit of experience. From the 'other side' of the camera. I have watched many young men, with dreams of money and stardom be eaten up and spit out by the porn industry. Its an ugly, cruel, and heartless industry. They treat young people like parts thru a machine. They prey on youth, beauty and inexperience, to fill their screens, and their bank accounts with new 'product'. Meanwhile, the actors themselves are left with a few bucks, and a bad reputation. Those are the lucky ones. The others end up with drug addictions, disease, and death. This is the truth of the industry.

There are a few men on here, who pretend to know things that they don't know. I suspect they are large consumers of porn, and wish to defend their use of it, by minimizing the impacts that porn has on the young men and women who are IN it.

Its a very slippery slope. A lot like doing drugs. And the producers of porn are a lot like drug dealers and suppliers. They rely on a naive youth market to fill their bank accounts. And they will do and say anything to get what they need. They are the ones making the money.

Porn actors normally end up prostituting themselves, to make the money they THOUGHT they would earn by making porn.

Think very hard about what you want out of life, before you make a life decision like being in porn. Its damaging to the body and soul. Any of these old men on here, pretending to know something more than this, should be ashamed of themselves. All of them. Their attacks on me personally, prove that I have struck close to the bone. I have exposed the truth of their sad lives, and they are angry.

I consider it my duty, as an older, proud gay man, to tell the truth. I am proud to say, that from the beginning of this thread, I have stated the truth, and I have been routinely attacked by a few old men on here, who are determined to paint me as bad.

Have at it ladies. If I am bad because I advise a young man not to do porn. And I tell the truth about a very bad industry. Then what are you?
 

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I've lived with a couple porn performer in the past. One was a porn star, the other a co-star, lol. Anyway, think about your very distant future. One where you retired from porn many years ago. You're out for a nice family dinner with a few close friends at the table. Everything couldn't be better. Great company, good food, nice music, a lovely atmosphere. Then just as you couldn't think an evening couldn't be any better, some drunk, loud-mouth asshole walks up to you and your closest friends and family and starts to reminisce about that scene in Bangin' Barcelona Boy Butt when Jennifer was elbow-deep in your tight, pink asshole. And he whips out his nasty, shriveled old pecker and ask you to autograph it.
That'll ruin your dessert.
but that's just a story.
Remember: chocolates get eaten, flowers wilt, but the printed pictures and written word last forever.
 
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Titled: Guys That Want to Do Porn! Listen up!... This one is definitely worth listening to, especially if you have qualms about it.

Some wise words from a former pro.

A/B

I wasn't being judgmental. But there are certain realities you have to consider. I think JO or nude pics would be best, if you really felt the calling.

I don't believe that porn stars should be branded when they get out of the industry. That is so wrong.

I like to sell replicas of my cock. But I'm not a known stud in the industry.:biggrin1: