Help - Wife has become extremely picky in bed

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by enkiduo, Feb 12, 2009.

  1. enkiduo

    enkiduo New Member

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    Recently though my wife has become increasingly picky in bed, with like our last 10 attempts ending in her losing all interest after I make some petty mistake. Usually she expects me to do something very particular, which she doesn't communicate and which I do 20 seconds too late, or whatever, and she goes uselessly limp on me.

    We are both young, and used to have sex regularly, but this is really a pain in the ass. I am a good lover, and am not trying to rush the act, we are both young and used to be pretty hot for each other, but this has become progressively worse - its really a pain in the ass.
     
  2. 2hung4u

    2hung4u New Member

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    I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds as if your wife is no longer attracted to you.
     
  3. B_JasonDawgxxx

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    Seems there are deeper issues at work here. You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with your wife. Good luck and keep us posted.
     
  4. AlteredEgo

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    I agree with Jasondawgxxx. The sex is a symptom, not the problem. Best of luck to you. with patience and communication, you can get to the bottom of it.
     
  5. sexplease

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    well, do it out of bed then. Bed's are for sleeping.
     
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    Talk to her. I hope it works out.
     
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