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Hi guys, I'm currently trying to transition from being straight to becoming gay and I need some advice.

What's different about life in general as a gay male?
What can I expect from gay sex (I think I would like to be a bottom).
How do I go about finding a loving boyfriend?

Thanks!!

And here's a pic of my booty so you guys don't get too bored H0mo.jpg
 
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Hi guys, I'm currently trying to transition from being straight to becoming gay and I need some advice.

What's different about life in general as a gay male?
What can I expect from gay sex (I think I would like to be a bottom).
How do I go about finding a loving boyfriend?

Thanks!!

And here's a pic of my booty so you guys don't get too bored View attachment 1579955
Before we can answer any of your questions you must register as a "new gay guy" . Most major metropolitan areas have a sign up office. Just Google new gay guy and you should find a listing near you . If you want to stay in the closet or at least on the down low wear a hat with dark sun glasses.
 

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Before we can answer any of your questions you must register as a "new gay guy" . Most major metropolitan areas have a sign up office. Just Google new gay guy and you should find a listing near you . If you want to stay in the closet or at least on the down low wear a hat with dark sun glasses.
Bro, you just killed me with that. Thank you. I needed that laugh today. :)
 
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Before we can answer any of your questions you must register as a "new gay guy" . Most major metropolitan areas have a sign up office. Just Google new gay guy and you should find a listing near you . If you want to stay in the closet or at least on the down low wear a hat with dark sun glasses.

Surely this is a spoof. I hope and pray no one actually is this fucking stupid. Oh! Today I am going to be gay. Tomorrow, maybe straight. Oh! Maybe I should try the "bi line", bump pussy while getting fucked up the ass. Or, fuck him while he fucks pussy. Or, just fuck guys and be done with this. (I hope those of you who read this get the harsh sarcasm intended!)
 

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Alex - Like others here it’s with a bit of scepticism that I read your post. Perhaps you’re serious and we’re all jaded. I honestly don’t know.
Even in Mississippi, if that’s your real home, you can find local support organizations. I would suggest you look there or search the topic online for current books.
Just be you. The pieces will fall into place in their own time.
 

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Hi guys, I'm currently trying to transition from being straight to becoming gay and I need some advice.

You've probably come to the wrong place.

What's different about life in general as a gay male?

Not much. Just a different flavor of the same misery and existential emptiness everyone has to face.

What can I expect from gay sex (I think I would like to be a bottom).

Don't expect anything. Gay sex can range from intimate to alienating, freaky to prudish, extremely painful to ecstatically pleasurable, rewarding to highly disappointing, extensive to brief, etc. It is what you and your partner make of it. Pay attention to whom you are choosing, and if you don't want a complete gamble, maybe get to know him a bit first. Also, if you want to minimize your health risks, be diligent about it, and apply safety measures you feel are necessary. Anal intercourse is considerably more risky for bloodborne pathogens.

How do I go about finding a loving boyfriend?

Pray. Every other approach tends to be a crap-shoot.
 
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Hey guys, be gentle, he could be confused or trying to come out and reaching for advise. Maybe I am just gullible lol.

You may be right. However, in today's world there are MANY groups he can reach out to. Unlike when I "came out" 51 years ago. In the sixties and seventies we were traveling through uncharted and at times very hostile waters.
 
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I know, it was bad very bad back then but now we have more tools to deal with and communicate the message better and be more informed. Thank God

I was very active in gay civil rights in the eighties, having served on two boards of directors. In the early nineties, I wrote columns for small gay papers. Many of us worked "in the shadows" to promote positive awareness about homosexuality; dispelling the ideas that it is abnormal or unnatural. Sadly, because of our puritanical history in the U.S. the debate never ends and the battles persist.
 
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Thanks for all your help, it is because of you guys that we can have parades and not afraid of voicing our opinion. So on that note let Alex explain more on his situation before we judge

I agree. The term "transition" is what caught me. If Alex means "transitioning" in the sense of coming to terms with his homosexuality, I can accept that. The problem with that word is how it suggests, "Well, today I am straight but let me move over to the gay side to see how I like that."
 

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For a start one either is or isn't interested in guys for sex, you look as if you have experience.
One doesnt learn to become, transition - like changing busses.
To much bad publicity about gender changing - like changing hats.
Today I wanted a piss while I was out so mentally I changed to a woman so I could use the ladies toilet...
no, it doesnt work like that.
Would suggest a sex therapist!