Help with dirty talk.

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  1. littleRed2

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    I need help with talking dirty. I have never done it. My Bf wants me to talk dirty to him while we are making love. Ive never done it and we are in a fairley new relationship. I want to, but I dont want to sound like a whore. He has asked me several times now. Will some of you guys tell me what kind of things you like to hear. And which ones turn you on the most. I really like him and I want to please him and I want to blow his mind and I really would like a long relationship with him. Girls welcome to help me out to.
     
  2. psidom

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    he most likely wants you to sound like a "whore"
    the key is YOUR'E NOT a whore.

    you are just "acting" like one for him,because he asked you to.
    the trick is, to enjoy doing it yourself...otherwise you
    really will sound bad/dorky.

    does he have a long or thick cock? which aspect do you like best?
    think of another girl enjoying him and she is talking dirty to him
    now become her,use a bit of that jealousy to fuel your words.
    (just keep it real,he just wants to hear you genuinely LOVE fucking him)
    get off on being a little bit trashy...i do. ; )
     
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    Size compliments are the best you can give. Tell him that he feels so different and so much better than what you've had. Anything that hints at you being slowly converted into a kind of size queen (by his doing) is going to make him really hot.
     
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    My husband has always enjoyed the dirty talking too and sometimes it is kind of hard to do it on demand.

    What I would suggest is for you to go purchase a Playgirl Magazine and read some of the little story scenerios in there. It gave me some creative material to work with. I think the first time I just read some of the stories from the magazine.....It worked......and it gave me ideas for sexy talk to use next time.

    Anyways this is just how I started so I thought I would share and pass it along. Good luck!
     
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    I guess the more I do it, It will be more natural. I just freeze up when he askes and I cant think of anything to say. Im not shy at all with my body. But this seems hard to me. Thanks for your help.
     
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    really like the idea of reading playgirl mag for some info to do so...

    that's great!! really. try it, littlered... you'll love it. ;)

    man just need his partner support. what slant said was right, it's really hot and always works for me too.
     
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    like anything eles, you got to ease your self into it. Try with just giving the play by play. And tell him how much you love the way he feels. If you think about it there is nothing Whoreish about that. A little, " Fuck my pussy", or " I love your dick" is enough to get me going. Eventually, you'll be so into it you'll be sounding like a porn star.

    I was totaly freaked out by a one night stand that was making tons of noise in the middle of the night. Half way threw somehing came over me and i completely got into it. I've been a dirty talker ever since, and I've gotten a bunch of girls to do the same.
     
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    I noticed that you used the term "making love." I think there's a difference between a good hard banging and making love. If you're in the "making love" mode, you'll probably not be able to talk dirty without it sounding dorky and feeling uncomfortable. That's because if it's slow and gentle and loving, talking dirty doesn't quite fit.

    So, you might try adjusting the midset from "making love" to "having sex" at least part of the time so that you can loosen up and get down and dirty.
    I agree with Slant, compliments about a man's size and girth and how good it feels always work. It's ok to give directions too.
     
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    Personally, I just say what is on my mind. And I agree, there is a difference between making love and having sex (fucking). when my BF is "fucking" me...I just say what is going thru my mind. Ex. if he is watching his cock going in and out of me...a question usually comes to mind like "you like my pussy?" or I will say something like "that is all yours"....he loves it...

    But, if we are making love..those animalistic sexual feelings aren't in the picture...it is more about being with him. So I don't have the urge to ask him to "Pound me"....lol
     
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    Sexy compliments, worship him:

    Oh my god you're so fucking huge.
    I love your big fucking cock
    Fuck me harder with your thick cock
    God I love how you fill my pussy
    Turn me over and fuck me like a dog stud
    I wanna taste your big load, baby
     
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    the greatest turn on for me is knowing that I am completely and fully satisfying my partner sexually. Apart from having a continuous, uncontrollably intense orgasm for the duration of your lovemaking (!), my advice would be to truthfully tell your lover exactly what you are feeling physically, to describe to him in detail what he is doing that makes you feel so good. Do you orgasm when you have sex? tell him when you feel your orgasm building. Is he large? describe to him exactly how his size feels inside of you, or how it makes you feel when you see his cock. Do your sessions last a long time? Tell him how impressive his staying power is. you get the idea...
     
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    "You're so big"

    I also like to hear "Fuck" and "Fuck me" said in an urgent, breathy whisper.
     
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    you are so bad jeff :cool:
     
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    Once you realise what it does to men you'll loose all traces of being self conscious.
    Describe what he's doing to you using the foulest barnyard terms in a throaty, wanton purrr.
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    It has to come out of you naturally or you're going to sound like a fake porn girl doing some bad acting.

    The only thing that concerns me is you said: "I want to blow his mind and I really would like a long relationship with him." It almost sounds like you're equating the longevity of this relationship as to how well you can dirty talk.

    I wonder if this is some kind of fetish he has to have in order to get off?

    The best thing you can do is say little things to start, like:
    "you make me feel so good, baby."
    "I love every inch of you inside me."
    "you make me cum like never before"

    And you can say the dirtier things that some of the posters already mentioned to get a feel for what he wants.
     
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    i dig that alot.:wink:
     
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    I don't think we talk dirty really but sometimes a little I guess, like sometimes he'll tell me how hard he's gonna make me cum and all that. Honestly a lot of the time it's hard for me to form words when we're doing it but sometimes I'll just get out a few words about how good it feels and all that. I don't think that's really sounding like a whore :smile:.
     
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    Thanks:)
     
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    Perfect. Speaking from experience, doll?
     
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