Help With "doggie Style" Please?

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so can i please get some helpful advice from you all?

my favorite position is pretty boring.... I love missionary because I love connecting with a woman, kissing her, holding her, and watching her face contort in pleasure. facial expressions to me, seem so real, authentic and hard to fake. I also look so big from this angle.(which steels my confidence)

But SO many women i meet prefer doggie position. They often seem to be submissive. And for some odd reason, i have a difficult time staying hard during doggie. Visually, it just doesn't excite me. And it kills it for me. when we switch to that position, i often lose my erection and then confidence... it can be a buzzkill.

has anybody experienced this before? any tips or advice? thank you!
 
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Try a cock ring. Had an ex who loved reverse cowgirl but for what every reason it just didn't do it for me and like you i'd lose hardness, we'd bought a cock ring for the hell of it and used it one night and when we switched to that position i found i stand fully hard after that i always used it especially in that position
 
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I love doggy. Having her ass bounce off of the base of my cock feels amazing. And then you can always transition to prone bone to ride her ass and give her a deep pussy digging

Plus if she's into it you can thumb fuck her ass hole while giving her backshots
 
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Doggy is the position that shows skill in giving quality dick... Use long fluid strokes (the whole length of the dick)...and don’t just go in and out... Like the late Bernie Mac said “ stir that muhfucka like coffee...I move my hips in a perfect circle or use them to hit different areas (the first stroke goes in straight, the second stroke goes to the left and the third stroke goes to the right)..u have to to know how to use your hips ... Going in and out in and out is just hitting that same spot over and over and over... Even a big girth is meaningless if you don’t know how to use your hips..it’s meaningless
 

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Doggy is the position that shows skill in giving quality dick... Use long fluid strokes (the whole length of the dick)...and don’t just go in and out... Like the late Bernie Mac said “ stir that muhfucka like coffee...I move my hips in a perfect circle or use them to hit different areas (the first stroke goes in straight, the second stroke goes to the left and the third stroke goes to the right)..u have to to know how to use your hips ... Going in and out in and out is just hitting that same spot over and over and over... Even a big girth is meaningless if you don’t know how to use your hips..it’s meaningless


Great advice on how to give a quality fuck! Thank you!
 

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I hope some on us with any experience have figured out some of these instructions. Lol

For a reminder.... When fucking doggy u get far more power fucking Without holding on to your partner....If u don’t have rhythm then holding on will be best for you ...
 
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For a reminder.... When fucking doggy u get far more power fucking Without holding on to your partner....If u don’t have rhythm then holding on will be best for you ...
Have to agree. Doggy gives far more versatility for the male and allows us to offer a variety of pleasure moves. Also allows us to vary the length and duration of stroking. I've never taken it to a woman who wasn't completely after a session of dog style fucking. I would post script this with the comment that I agree with the first poster in that I much prefer missionary because it allows for a much more intimate connection in my opinion. But, everybody has their fav.
 
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Doggy is the position that shows skill in giving quality dick... Use long fluid strokes (the whole length of the dick)...and don’t just go in and out... Like the late Bernie Mac said “ stir that muhfucka like coffee...I move my hips in a perfect circle or use them to hit different areas (the first stroke goes in straight, the second stroke goes to the left and the third stroke goes to the right)..u have to to know how to use your hips ... Going in and out in and out is just hitting that same spot over and over and over... Even a big girth is meaningless if you don’t know how to use your hips..it’s meaningless

You should close that quote. At some point I thought Bernie Mac said all of that
 
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Hasn't happened to me.

If it doesn't turn you on it doesn't turn you on. Why fight it? Use boner pills. Strap on a vibrating dildo. I would if that's what it took to make a doggie-loving partner happy if I couldn't stay hard.
 

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Doggy is the position that shows skill in giving quality dick... Use long fluid strokes (the whole length of the dick)...and don’t just go in and out... Like the late Bernie Mac said “ stir that muhfucka like coffee...I move my hips in a perfect circle or use them to hit different areas (the first stroke goes in straight, the second stroke goes to the left and the third stroke goes to the right)..u have to to know how to use your hips ... Going in and out in and out is just hitting that same spot over and over and over... Even a big girth is meaningless if you don’t know how to use your hips..it’s meaningless

Well said.
 

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You and I are the same in one respect. I, too, love missionary because I love to watch her face. I learned to love doggy by fucking in front of a mirror. I position her where I can see her face and whatever else is going on too. Once I got used to that position and learned what to do by watching her face, I changed to where I wasn't watching in the mirror and all is great. Your problem is that you don't know the feed back or are scared that you don't know what to do. Be not afraid.
 
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Very interesting because missionary is my least preferred sexual position. Doggy style is king. There is nothing like giving out tons of work with a nice fat ass bent over. I would say just envision something that keeps you mentally stimulated for the time being. Or try things like cock rings or maybe viagra/cialis.
 

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so can i please get some helpful advice from you all?

my favorite position is pretty boring.... I love missionary because I love connecting with a woman, kissing her, holding her, and watching her face contort in pleasure. facial expressions to me, seem so real, authentic and hard to fake. I also look so big from this angle.(which steels my confidence)

But SO many women i meet prefer doggie position. They often seem to be submissive. And for some odd reason, i have a difficult time staying hard during doggie. Visually, it just doesn't excite me. And it kills it for me. when we switch to that position, i often lose my erection and then confidence... it can be a buzzkill.

has anybody experienced this before? any tips or advice? thank you!

Everyone is different. Period. Some things bring one person pleasure that another doesn't find fun, and that's fine! The trick is finding someone who has the same preferences as you. If Doggie doesn't do it for you, let them know. If your partner is halfway decent they'll compromise if missionary is something they are into. If they aren't, don't sweat it, and find someone who is into it.
 
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