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hey guys, really need your help here. This is a serious question and i hope someone can relate and offer helpful, insightful feedback.
I have this daily need to FAP at least once a day in the morning, to clear my head and then go on being productive. the problem for me is, i like to have some kind of correspondence with real women on a dating site or lifestyle site to help me get going. In other words, i can't just dial up porn, take care of business and clear my mind 5 minutes later., and be on my way. I guess i need some kind of mental stimulation too with REAL women.
So as a result, i end up wasting HOURS online trying to get rid of this, trying to find a real women to correspond with online to talk to, flirt with. it's a HUGE waste of time. as a result i lose HOURS of productivity.
I wish i could just click on a hot porn vid and knock it out. but i can't. I guess if i were to self analyze, my criticism of porn is it's not real. I just see hot women getting paid to have sex. Women who just use their sexuality as a job to pay their rent. there's no emotion or reality to it.
I need help. I guess i need to find a way to move past it? or find some kind of hack to just knock it out in the morning, and go on about my day. Does that make sense? I guess at the end of the day, it's just an addiction i need to overcome?
can anyone offer advice, suggestions? thank you!
I have this daily need to FAP at least once a day in the morning, to clear my head and then go on being productive. the problem for me is, i like to have some kind of correspondence with real women on a dating site or lifestyle site to help me get going. In other words, i can't just dial up porn, take care of business and clear my mind 5 minutes later., and be on my way. I guess i need some kind of mental stimulation too with REAL women.
So as a result, i end up wasting HOURS online trying to get rid of this, trying to find a real women to correspond with online to talk to, flirt with. it's a HUGE waste of time. as a result i lose HOURS of productivity.
I wish i could just click on a hot porn vid and knock it out. but i can't. I guess if i were to self analyze, my criticism of porn is it's not real. I just see hot women getting paid to have sex. Women who just use their sexuality as a job to pay their rent. there's no emotion or reality to it.
I need help. I guess i need to find a way to move past it? or find some kind of hack to just knock it out in the morning, and go on about my day. Does that make sense? I guess at the end of the day, it's just an addiction i need to overcome?
can anyone offer advice, suggestions? thank you!