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Sizequeen, will you get back on topic? :rolleyes: I'm here a lot, too, on purpose because I want to be supportive. Dolfette and I both have lives but LPSG is a part of my life I enjoy enough to be proud of. And your slamming her with third party insults is a bit insecure, surely.

It's not her thread, nor yours either. The OP and his girlfriend are what we are addressing. I think their affection for one another will govern the outcome, no matter which of them gets their mind broadened first.

Now you 'experts' grow up too!
 

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Sizequeen, will you get back on topic? :rolleyes: I'm here a lot, too, on purpose because I want to be supportive. Dolfette and I both have lives but LPSG is a part of my life I enjoy enough to be proud of. And your slamming her with third party insults is a bit insecure, surely.

It's not her thread, nor yours either. The OP and his girlfriend are what we are addressing. I think their affection for one another will govern the outcome, no matter which of them gets their mind broadened first.

Now you 'experts' grow up too!

I was on topic and part of the topic became how unnecessarily bitchy some women on here are. They don't even allow a man to ask a question before getting stomped on. I have also seen you do it and if lpsg is such an important part of your life(which sounds pathetic) then you might want to treat it better before it bites you in the ass
 

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See, this issue isn't going to unfurl itself if bitter jabs keep getting slipped in to escalate things. That only leads to consolidation of current opinion, and then you'll be even further from seeing eye-to-eye than before!

To middle-ground!
 

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I was on topic and part of the topic became how unnecessarily bitchy some women on here are. They don't even allow a man to ask a question before getting stomped on. I have also seen you do it and if lpsg is such an important part of your life(which sounds pathetic) then you might want to treat it better before it bites you in the ass

You list your gender as non-male. Are you feeling stomped on by me? Do you feel I have stomped on the OP?

I am sorry you find my ministry (as linked in my sig line) pathetic. Feel free to call any time and I will try to address your concerns about it privately.
 

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See, this issue isn't going to unfurl itself if bitter jabs keep getting slipped in to escalate things. That only leads to consolidation of current opinion, and then you'll be even further from seeing eye-to-eye than before!

To middle-ground!

Consolidation of who's opinion? The women on this board? You are missing the point if you think I care about their opinions. I now have had four men msg me telling me they are happy a woman is finally saying something back. It would just be nice if they had the balls to comment here themselves. I have been on lpsg for months and don't bother much with the Women's Issues posts because it always ends up the same

Would you like to know what the main issue is for Women's Issues?

The women- the nasty, bitchy, hard up, spinster like, miserable losers who have no lives of their own so they judge anyone and everyone who posts here, it is sad, it is pathetic and when people come here asking legitimate things, I feel sorry for them because you cunts are the first to reply because you have nothing better to do
 

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You list your gender as non-male. Are you feeling stomped on by me? Do you feel I have stomped on the OP?

I am sorry you find my ministry (as linked in my sig line) pathetic. Feel free to call any time and I will try to address your concerns about it privately.

Don't give yourself so much credit, you were not one of the first to reply, and yes I find anyone spending as much time as you and dolfette on here pathetic
 

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See, this issue isn't going to unfurl itself if bitter jabs keep getting slipped in to escalate things. That only leads to consolidation of current opinion, and then you'll be even further from seeing eye-to-eye than before!

To middle-ground!

Yes. I agree. More Moxie momentum.
 

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Consolidation of who's opinion? The women on this board? You are missing the point if you think I care about their opinions. I now have had four men msg me telling me they are happy a woman is finally saying something back. It would just be nice if they had the balls to comment here themselves. I have been on lpsg for months and don't bother much with the Women's Issues posts because it always ends up the same

Would you like to know what the main issue is for Women's Issues?

The women- the nasty, bitchy, hard up, spinster like, miserable losers who have no lives of their own so they judge anyone and everyone who posts here, it is sad, it is pathetic and when people come here asking legitimate things, I feel sorry for them because you cunts are the first to reply because you have nothing better to do

I think you do care about their opinion; you clearly care enough to be hanging your bum out in the open with no ostensible support in order to change what's being said, or at least how the talking is going down. Otherwise, why call anyone out to begin with?
(and this isn't a jab, it's admirable that you stand up for what believe in)

I also understand what you take issue with, but all I was trying to hint at was dropping a word like "cunt" on a group isn't exactly going to win anyone over. You're ostracizing yourself in doing so, and anyone on the opposing side who might have been open minded towards your efforts is going to be blinded by the wall of insults. Extreme acts lead to.... greater extremity.

You never see peace treaties open with "fuck you, die"
 
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To the women here- do you ever get tired of your snarky, bitchy comments?

That's right - tar every woman on thread with the same brush - that will really endear you to everyone. Point out where Helg and I were snarky - point out where AE was snarky (before the OP jumped her). You clearly think dolf was snarky but I disagree - her response seemed appropriate to me.

Over and over again we are told by noobs like you to tone it down - I have only one response to that, go fuck yourself. Being indirect and wishywashy here gets you walked all over. Even complete sweethearts like CondomFairy and less aggressive posters like petite and Laidey learned very quickly how 'direct' is a necessary part of being a female poster here.

I was on topic and part of the topic became how unnecessarily bitchy some women on here are. They don't even allow a man to ask a question before getting stomped on. I have also seen you do it and if lpsg is such an important part of your life(which sounds pathetic) then you might want to treat it better before it bites you in the ass

Weak-assed defense. You have no idea what part of anyone else's life LPSG is or isn't. dolf made those post over several years. And what's it to you anyway - you're here too.

You list your gender as non-male. Are you feeling stomped on by me? Do you feel I have stomped on the OP?

We know when your stomping boots are on, h - they are a rare site - but quite a thing to behold when you get to using them.
 

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Weak-assed defense. You have no idea what part of anyone else's life LPSG is or isn't. dolf made those post over several years. And what's it to you anyway - you're here too.

It isn't a weak ass defense, it's true. I am here once in a while, not every single minute of the day. You have even more posts than she does- did they give you a loser award for every thousand posts?

I am also not a noob, have been here for months, not new to the internet either. People come here asking questions not to be argued with. I can understand the times where guys are looking for attention but when people are sincerely asking something, you should just shut the fuck up and listen to their issue instead of trying to be a bitch
 

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On a side note: MsMoxie great reference.

Well I have the same problem (I use this word lightly) with my girlfriend. I have talked about it with her, which equated to a very slight improvement. I have asked her what she would like me to do to make her want to give me a BJ. Her response disgusted me (she ate lotion as a kid and likes the taste, you can put 2 and 2 together) but we did it anyway and she enjoyed giving a BJ more. When she gives me a BJ, I will exaggerate my pleasure (she is not very good) this seems to help (this was also mentioned by someone else). In all, she essentially, for all intensive purposes, never gives me blow jobs. Since I really don't care about getting them, I dropped it. I occasionally (once in a total lunar eclipse ~1 a year) {a blue moon does not accurately reflect how often I ask} drop hints that I want one, typically I don't get one.

Now for my advice: just keep trying!! That is all you can do. Ask every now and then, explore each others bodies and find out what each other likes. If you want her to give you more head I would definitely give pointers and tips, just say "that feels great" or "I like that". Good luck and may the force be with you.
 
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