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Haha my poor boyfriend only gets sex once or twice a week...he's away for work during the week and on weekends I only usually like it once a day lol. Poor guy, I know he wants more but I've got low libido from antidepressants bleh.
 

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Haha my poor boyfriend only gets sex once or twice a week...he's away for work during the week and on weekends I only usually like it once a day lol. Poor guy, I know he wants more but I've got low libido from antidepressants bleh.

I know what you mean, those antidepressants play games with my whole sex drive.
 

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well thanks for the advice, i have a hard time believeing that everyone has sex everyday, that makes me feel like an ass if its true, and yeah were young she is 21 im 25, i dont know my job is stressfull and i work long hours but i want her to be happy to its just tough for me to have sex every god damn day


I do not think it is wrong for couples to have differing sex drives, and you will find a full spectrum of differing opinions on what is 'normal', because it varies too much! What matters is How the Two of You Handle the difference in your sex drives.

If you two remain a couple, anything could happen to one of you health-wise, so that suddenly it's you whose sex drive is greater than hers. Then what?

Both of you have to take responsibility for your own satisfaction, even if you are a couple. The one with greater drive needs to find a way to be happy with self-pleasure or some other Mutually Acceptable Solution. Talk out what you would be comfortable with her doing to give you a break from continually having to please her. Perhaps you would like to hold her tenderly while she uses a toy on herself.