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  1. joeybigdick123

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    hey guys- this is sort of embarassing and frustrating. whenever i'm jacking off, i have a real hard time going straight from pumping it to cumming. i usually have to hold in my cum until i can get to a garbage can or something so i dont cum everywhere on me. basically i have some sort of mental block to cumming on me/getting messy/etc, which is really hurting me sexually cause i know my orgasms will be so much better if i could just go from jacking off --> cum.

    any advice? thanks.
     
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    Hey - it's a great feeling, for me, to experience the cum on the leg or wherever -

    at one time, I was in your category but . . . it's too great a feeling to have to control - let loose, you'll feel better and have better sessions.
     
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    how did you break out?
     
  4. DiscoBoy

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    Get over it? At least try cumming on yourself once and see how it goes. Keep a towel nearby so you can clean yourself up right after.

    Otherwise, just keep a tissue or a towel (or even a sock) with you when you're jerking off and when you're about to cum just aim it into the tissue/towel/sock. No interruption and no mess!
     
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    Jack it in the Shower and there will be no clean up. I just viewed your gallery and you should have no problem stroking your love muscle.

    Let it go!!!
     
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    thanks for the advice guys. i really feel like i'm missing a lot by not being able to just let loose and cum!
     
  7. Wish-4-8

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    Get a cum rag. There is a whole thread about it.
    Just keep a rag handy. When you shoot, shoot into it. The cleanest way to jerk it.
     
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    Just get a towel... maybe even paper towels (they're disposable)
    and have your fun over those.

    You sound so young, especially if you just discovered masturbation.
    Anyway, enjoy the hell out of it.
     
  9. joeybigdick123

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    hey, sorry to bump this up but i'm having this same problem again. does anyone have any advice for how i can just let loose and cum? i don't know if it's mental or whatever but it's fucking frustrating. :(
     
  10. JTalbain

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    Couple of ways:

    1) Choose to jack off in an area you'd feel comfortable ejaculating. If it's a trash can, start there and end there.

    2) Take Hung's advice and jack it in the shower. I prefer bed and just cum on my sheets.

    3) And the one that might help you actually get over it: Don't allow yourself your crutch. If you get sore, stop, but if you keep denying yourself the trashcan or whatever you need to cum, eventually you will blue balls out so hard that you'll come anywhere, without much stimulation at all. I think once you force yourself this way a couple of times, the problem would probably go away.
     
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    Fur and jizz, nightmare combination... I hate ejaculating on myself too.

    Always have loo roll to hand... makes life much easier by far.
     
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