nope, i've run into the whiny, try hard, self proclaimed nice guys.
they're even worse than bad boys.
at least the bad boys don't bitch about your lack of interest and accuse you of being self destructive for not wanting them.
i've no interest in either.
give me a good guy. a genuine nice guy. the guy who isn't boohooing 'why are women so stupid?????'
* Caveat: I'm not finger pointing at anyone especially not Dolfette, because I don't know her like that... this is just my personal experience. *
Self proclaimed 'anything' is usually phoney though, right?
I guess I don't understand because I'm a nice and good guy... but not at all in the negative ways in which you describe them. And that's not self-proclaimed, you can ask any girl or guy who knows me and they will tell you the same. I mean they know not to fuck with me... I'm not a pushover/doormat/lapdog either. :wink:
I've never run into another person who was going around self-proclaiming to be nice, but who deep down really was not... and they were just trying to get people to do something for them because they were simply 'saying their were nice', but deep down were not. If they weren't a genuinely nice/good person, it was obvious in the first few seconds of meeting them or their reputation already preceded them.
People that really know a person will know if they are nice/good or not. People that really know a person will know if they are mean/bad or not. Seems pretty cut and dry to me.
I have, however, run into FEMALES who self proclaim to be nice/good and by everyone of their actions it's obvious that they are not. They go around telling everyone how nice they are, but they are the first to say mean/hateful things to people's faces or turn around and talk behind their back or be non appreciative of the nice things people do for them (not just me, ALL the nice things people do for them).
They are also the first to think it's wierd when a guy wants to open a car/restaurant door for them, wants to pay for their outings together, wants to give them a hug when they are departing, doesn't mind listening when they are upset about something, etc. What's the girls reasoning for this being wierd? "Oh, I don't like that guy because he is TOO nice!" LOL gimme a break, seriously. I'm too nice, and you're too much of a bitch! Maybe that's a better way to think of it lol.
A person like me does those things for anyone that I consider a friend (male or female)... not just a potential gf or for potential sex. THAT is being genuinely nice, and I don't have to go around claiming that I'm a nice or good person to everyone - everyone already knows it without me saying anything.
I'd just hope that most women don't take the stance like the above mentioned women I've run into.