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Discussion in 'New Member Introductions' started by 19871987, Feb 18, 2010.

  1. 19871987

    19871987 New Member

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    hi everyone
    by joining this site u probably can guess i like looking at bulges / fit guys on internet, and get horny off them.
    also in real world im constantly looking at guys bulges when walking around.

    I dont get erections of girls. i dont really watch much girl porn coz it didnt particularly interest me and i didnt get hard off it / as much cum

    but i want to be straight. Before anyone tells me being gay isnt to be ashamed of blah blah i no that but its not the lifestyle i want. I want a wife/kids and all that.

    however i just dont seem to get horny off them.
    im still in an all boys college and so dont really see much of girls. not that sociable.

    never done anything with men/women.
    but i often think about mates and their cocks and stuff.

    i can see whether a girl is fit or not and can pick out my ideal women etc etc, yet i dont get hard about them.

    Worried that if this continues i wont get hard when i start getting gfs.
    what do u think? advice?

    i left my thingy as 50 50 now coz i dont really know.
    love bulges and fit guys on internet
    want and wish for a nice wife and woman in later life.
     
  2. helgaleena

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    There is no reason why you cannot have all those things in your life. They do not cancel each other out. The main thing is to have a serene and steady life with honesty and decency and be careful about what you do in private. Guard your health and the health of those you love, nomatter what their sex.
     
  3. tomthelad91

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    Don't worry.

    You might just be curious? Have you ever actually done anything with a guy? This might satisfy your curiosity :)

    You're only in college, some people 'change' their sexuality even in their 30's, you're still young and a lot can happen.

    If you think you are Gay; this isn't the end of the world. You can still have a child, with a woman, perhaps in an open bi sexual marriage?

    This is a complicated area; don't worry. Sleep with who you want to, and work things out. Don't worry about it all now buddy.
     
  4. Vestigial

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    Well, I didn't join for these reasons. But welcome.


    *pauses for thought*

    Depending how far you want to take things, it's possible to change your sexuality and orientation.
     
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