Need to know how to convince my hottie to want to hook up with a past lover for my enjoyment. I used to be bothered by the fact that she had been with other guys before me, but have now trained my brain to want to take what was so negative and mold it into a positive. I just atleast wanna see her flirt with him. How would you approach the ex guy about the idea while keeping it "cool" and not weird"? Any other words of encouragment?