Hey everyone..I'm 21 from long island ny, in shape in the closet male. I know since I'm asking advice everyones going to tell me I should come out but I am just not ready. Writing this is hard enough for me. Anyway, since I am in the situation I am, it doesn't leave me many opportunities to do the things I want to do, if you know what I mean. I was wondering if there were any discrete places to meet other men (pref much older), where I wouldn't have to worry about running into people I know. I know this is kind of vague, but I'm just wondering if anyone has any suggestions for me. Also...is it wierd that I am only attracted to much older guys? I am 21, but I don't get turned on by anyone younger then like 35..am I really screwed up or what? Thanks a lot.