Hey. My mate and I are straight. He recently had a nasty bike accident in which he broke both arms and a few finger bones on both hands. This was like 4 weeks ago. Last night I visited him and he was sorta awkward and said he was horny. He is single and out of desperation he asked if I'd consider jerking him off for some relief. He is holed up at his mom's while he recovers and would only really trust me to do it. Would you guys do it?
Would you want him to do it for you if the roles were reversed? Must be strong friendship and strong degree of trust if he asked.
just about to say the same thing and if anything you can jerk him off with a condom that way his goo wont get on you. I say do it. i think he would trust you even more.
Sounds like you feel a bit ambivalent about this. Ultimately the best advice I can give is to trust your feelings, whatever they may feel. You know the situation the best. I will note however that it mustn't have been easy for your friend to ask you, and very hard on him i would imagine- Having been in a situation where I couldn't jack off for a month, I know what your friend is going through. He must trust you implicitly to ask you to do such a private thing- the most private thing anyone can ask of another really. You should be honoured that he trust you so much Now that said, it puts the 'ball in your court' and in some respects i believe that it might be very upsetting for him if he feels you cannot help him with such an imitate request at a time of his greatest need-a betrayal of that said great trust. He does sound in the right pickle. As do you. In regards to a 'Escort' as someone above mentioned, I don't think he sounds comfortable with a 'hired hand'. Do you think he would risk asking you to 'jack him off' otherwise? - something that in today's society would make him 'sound gay' and ripe for unjust bigotry and persecution. No. I think he feels that this is the best choice for him, otherwise most people wouldn't ask their best friend to help 'relieve' themselves, and he would have asked you to get him a hooker instead. Think about it and way up the pros and cons of the situation- and evaluate the situation and be happy with whatever way you pick-that way you have no regrets with whichever decision you make. Personally, I think if i was in the same situation, I would help my friend even though it might be a bit awkward :happysad: Though- word of warning- if you choose this route: you said he is at home with his Mum. Get him outta the house and somewhere you two can be private and uninterrupted by yourselves if you decide to jack him off. You don't want your Mum or anyone for that matter walking in, or hearing you helping him for that matter. After all, he's pent up a month, the poor guy's got blue balls and likely to be noisy and messy :wink:
I agree with the fleshlight; that way, you really don't have to touch him and he doesn't have to have you touching him---plus, a fleshlight feels GREAT! He WILL be hollering and bucking and moaning (if adventurous, you might even try the thing yourself ;-). Agree completely with one thing: do this NOPLACE around Mum! Take him to your place, take him to a hotel, wherever, but Mum doesn't need to know. Good luck! And, you two have a great friendship, congratulations!
Lol. Flashlight could work.... i guess it's situation dependant. Unless of course you recon he might take offence and think you don't wanna touch him because you feel his cock is gross or something, lol. Goes without saying- just be mindful of STI's whatever you do.
if you are confortable with it go for it. My guess is it will make the relationship stronger. The fleshlight idea would make a cool, "get well soon" gift.
Not unusual Do it for him, if he asked, and your comfortable with it Feel sure he would respect you for helping him out... i would, if i had asked Straight friend years ago, got a nurse to do it for him, obviously unprofessional on her part, but really ... who gives a fuck .. it was between her / him.
Sounds a lot like another thread posted on here while back called "Being a Friends Caretaker" check that one out...
Hmm interesting. I would not do this for a friend (guy or girl) cos I think it would make the friendship strange. Being straight too, there's no way I would do this for a girl friend - no matter how good friends we are. What if he then expects more? I reckon you should try and find a girl for him. Make him an account on fuckbook or something like that even.
