Helping mate with two broken hands

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He actually is struggle to pee neatly as he has a broken leg too. He feels really embarrassed that he messes so I've cleaned up some times. He has no problem with the ladies...just he is back home to recuperate and the dumb girls around here aren't his type.

I genuine think he is suffering. He isn't the kinda bloke to just think shit up like this. I don't think him asking is anything other than a genuine appeal. I have no feelings for him other than the love I have for him as a friend of 17 years. We've seen each other naked so it won't bother him or me. We're not jerk off buds and never have ever talked on that at all.

I've thought long on this today and made my decision. I will help him. He'd do it for me & I doubt it'd change our friendship. The fleshlight is a brilliant idea and I ordered it for him. He'll be out of action for a bit so it'd be cool as a gift.

Thank you guys (and girls) for your input. Much appreciated.

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If you do 69, then you will both be evens. Look ma no hands!
 

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Sounds like a trap to me. I have a buddy who had both arms in plaster and he was still able to get himself off. I didn't ask how he pulled it off but apparently with enough horny determination it's possible. What he couldn't do was wipe his own ass. Has he asked you to wipe his ass for him too?
 

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Sounds like a trap to me. I have a buddy who had both arms in plaster and he was still able to get himself off. I didn't ask how he pulled it off but apparently with enough horny determination it's possible. What he couldn't do was wipe his own ass. Has he asked you to wipe his ass for him too?

The bonds of friendship only extend so far. :biggrin1:
 

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For crying out loud, people, it's a handjob, not a kidney transplant. If a friend trusts you THAT much to even broach the subject, there is a strong bond. And I'm sure he hasn't asked 6 or 7 other friends to do it... get a jar of Albolene for lube, a couple towels, and roll his eyes back a couple times, and enjoy the time you spend helping a friend !
 

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I don't believe this entire thing. However, I would jerk most of my buds...well, all but one...he is on his own if he breaks both his hands. I would put some porn on and jerk me and him of an on so it is just an entire event in the light of the porn movie. Plus, make sure mom is out of the house.
 

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I can't believe someone asked this.

Based on your question you are gay, or bi, or curious, or all of these. Any of which are fine. If you were straight, you would have probably smacked your mate in the face or at the least explain that you have no interest in another man's junk. I do not even want to see my friends stuff- maybe you do, which is fine.

Would I do this for a friend. No. Also, I do not have any friends that want a man to jerk them off. You do. So your friend is clearly gay or bi- which is fine. Bottom line - he wants a man to jerk him off. This is clear - for him, it is okay for another man to fondle his junk. I could not perform with a man touching me, as women are awesome and I have no interest in other men.

If you want to stroke a man's junk, go for it. It is about you wanting to do it, not your friend in need. He can go without. But if you do do this, don't be suprised if he tries to get you to blow him- because he's so "helpless" and needs your help. When he's horny - and YOU will be making him horny- he'll beg you to do other stuff. Your friend wants you to do it, and if you do- he'll ask you to do it again and then he'll start pushing more boundaries. Because he's gay, and you will become a sexual outlet for him.

And clearly, this will absolutely destroy the friendship. Actually the friendship is already in question and may already be gone. But then again, you are asking the question in the first place so you may be interested in him. If you are actually confused, maybe you are young- I don't know, and are actually asking strangers for advice, I can honestly tell you this is a horrible idea, unless you want to date him and have a relationship with him. Which is totally fine, of course.

If you think you are still going to be friends with him after, you will not. Actually, he does not want to be your friend, you must know this. He wants you to perform sexual acts for him.

Do you really think a person can't go without jerking off for a few months? What type of bullshit excuse is that? If I had the option of going without, or having a guy jerk me off--- waiting is no problem, because I don't get hard for dudes.
 
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Wow, the extreme reactions indicate that this is a real homophobia-dar. As a gay man I wouldn't hesitate of course, so I'm not in a good position to know what it would be like for someone who was str8 and not at all homophobic, but wouldn't it be a service one friend could do for another like the kind of intimate things nurses have to do?
 

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ok fine as a openly bi guy i do prefer guys so yes i would help my friend out but if it were a female friend and she had to help me out again yes that is one of the things some friends can do for each other it is not for everyone
 

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Sure, its gay guys who the idea of this appeals to, so its gay guys posting answers. We all knew some straight guy we would love to have had sex with. But here we have one guy who obviously doesnt find the idea abhorrent because he asked, and another who also doesnt think that way because he is considering it. So any advice from people who would absolutely never consider it isnt going to apply.
 

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My thoughts exactly. A straight person would not even consider this, no matter how good the friendship is. There are just some barriers that friendships aren't supposed to cross.

Sure, I say I'm 10% gay...but only cos I appreciate the look of a gorgeous woman. But I'm not going to get her off cos she has some broken fingers.

With respect I must disagree there. The OPs original question was about whether it was in order to render his friend a service, so far as I can see, by loaning him the use of his hands in order to perform what some people would say was a necessary bodily function. It's not so very different from taking him to the toilet. The only difference really is in the type of fluid the guy would excrete.