Her ex was huge....

[enco]

Probably not something you bigger guys worry about, but being average I am curious. I had girlfriends in the past (and also my current gf) who had long term relationships with guys in the 10-11" range. And they loved the sex. Everyday. They lapped it up. So here I am with my 6" , perfectly average cock trying to live up to certain expectations. Now, I have no problems making a woman cum. Never had. Have given women orgasms during intercourse who never even experienced that. I can go for hours on end and pretty much cum when I want to. I get no complaints and they say they really enjoy me, big dicks can hurt and I'm big enough and all those kinds of things. And yet and yet...

It's a little hard to deal with. It's definitely not "all in my head" - these women liked huge cocks. If I get into a long term relationship I would like it to be her best sex ever - can it ever be, after they experienced and enjoyed 10-11" cocks?

 

[sangheili90]

They did not have 10-11 inch cocks...that is statistically as rare as an honest politician, either she is lying to make you feel insecure or she is just exaggerating.

Having a penis at 8" or longer puts you above the 99th percentile.

 

[Anticyde]

Women from my experience are horrible with telling size and believe anything. Most girls I've been with say they've had 11" or so, as biggest. Then I show them my legitimate 8.5 NBPEL and they assume it's like 16", and when I show them a REAL measurement they are blown away to find out those 11" exes are more like 6-7" max.

Show her you can fuck better than them and bring passion they couldn't. Don't show her you are insecure about your cock, stand strong and confident!

 

[Popyuu]

Think it may be a good idea to point out that they are ex's for a reason. If your with someone now that tells you you make them happy, stick with that.

 

[enco]

I know some exaggerate, but in at least two cases they weren't. Seen the pics.

I have never really been insecure about my size, just a little disappointed. I can live with it, same way I live with any other part of my body. I fucked in groups and enjoyed it and have no qualms about being naked around men or women. If a woman really likes you, she'll accept an average size but I also know that most won't deal with anything much below that. But being accepted and being drooled over are two different things. It seems in all women there is a little bit of a size queen lurking.

Sure, maybe it's mostly a visual thing for them, but from what I know of women, given a choice, they would always go for something around 8" and thick. Any longer and they can't get their clit pounded and for some that's essential to have an orgasm.

 

[Anticyde]

I've never seen anything that's 11" and convincing to me, and that's including Mandingo and BIgandlong who I'd put at around 10" max.

My advice is, if you really are interested in possibly expanding your size, give PE a shot. I have no experience with it, and can't tell you if it works or not, but some love it and say it does. At the least? May help your confidence.

6" is above average, my friend, and more than enough to please a woman or man in the right hands.


Had any of the men in my past been around 6", I would have had no complaints!

 

[HorseHung40's]

The guy, despite her claims of his size, is still her EX. Ask her, why he is the ex, if he was so great. Some probing will likely confirm that he was not great. Even a monster dick cannot compensate for meanness, poor social skills, bigotry or any other negative attribute that you may wist to insert.

 

[LaFemme]

They did not have 10-11 inch cocks...that is statistically as rare as an honest politician, either she is lying to make you feel insecure or she is just exaggerating.

Having a penis at 8" or longer puts you above the 99th percentile.

True. True. True.

And you are saying you have multiple exes who have had men of that size? BS!
Someone is not telling the truth or really can't measure!

Think it may be a good idea to point out that they are ex's for a reason. If your with someone now that tells you you make them happy, stick with that.

Absolutely! Best sex I've ever had was a guy who was no more than 6 inches. He completely rocked my world.

But if you whine about your size, act insecure about it and believe size makes the difference? You might just act like it's true. And that would really be sad for you and your girlfriend.

 

[Reddhott]

Clit pounded? Stroked, licked, sucked... Oh yeah. Pounded? No.

 

[peacenlove84]

If you're on LPSG, you're in the territory of those of love big dicks, have big dicks, or think they have big dicks. All I'm saying is you're asking a somewhat biased group.

With that said, and while it's easier said than done, don't let dick size bother you. If you're really statistically average, always made your partners cum, and your girlfriend is happy with you, there's nothing to worry about. Plus, depending on one's definition, a statistical outlier "big cock" is what? 1-3 inches bigger than a 6-incher? Visually, it may seem like miles apart, but you've got to remember -- we're quite literally talking about *inches.*

I'll also take the opportunity to mention a real 6-inch cock is slightly above average itself.

 

[LaFemme]

I know some exaggerate, but in at least two cases they weren't. Seen the pics.

I have never really been insecure about my size, just a little disappointed. I can live with it, same way I live with any other part of my body. I fucked in groups and enjoyed it and have no qualms about being naked around men or women. If a woman really likes you, she'll accept an average size but I also know that most won't deal with anything much below that. But being accepted and being drooled over are two different things. It seems in all women there is a little bit of a size queen lurking.

Sure, maybe it's mostly a visual thing for them, but from what I know of women, given a choice, they would always go for something around 8" and thick. Any longer and they can't get their clit pounded and for some that's essential to have an orgasm.

Sorry, but apparently what you know about women wouldn't fill the label on a file folder.

I hate when men share their expertise on us.

 

[Anticyde]

Show them you can do better with less.

As for what women want? 90% of women I've talked to about it, who know how to measure, say 6-7" is perfect.

It's the size queens and ones who think a 7" is a 11" that cause the confusion. Go find a ruler and look at 11", man. Even here on LPSG, "huge" is like 9.5.

 

[milwjocknow]

This post is just silly. Some guy fantasizing about his girlfriend with mythical 11 inch dicks. Oh, and he's seen PICS. I've seen pics of the Loch Ness monster, Big Foot and little green men from Mars. I think I'll start fantasizing about them now. Yeah baby.

 

[Anticyde]

Probably more evidence of their being a Nessy or Big Foot than an 11" dick that's real, too.

 

[milwjocknow]

Yeah man, don't you know he 'seen the pics'?!! LOL. Why the HELL would a straight man be looking at his girlfriends ex lovers penis pictures anyway? For that matter, why is he on the LPSG to begin with? Hmmmmm.

 

[878863]

It's a little hard to deal with. It's definitely not "all in my head" - these women liked huge cocks. If I get into a long term relationship I would like it to be her best sex ever - can it ever be, after they experienced and enjoyed 10-11" cocks?

If you aren't comfortable with the size of your penis and need your partner to validate you on this matter, you have bigger problems than your perfectly adequate member.

Why would you want to be with a girl who chose men based on dick size?

Why is it important to you that you be her best? There are probably multiple contexts in which you aren't the best at something, so why is best at sex so important?

Have you considered that while these phantom dicks may have been larger than yours, she may be inaccurate in her measurements? People are remarkably bad at eyeing the size of an erect penis - on top of that, most guys (including on this site) are full of it.

You seem to be really good in bed based on your OP. Focus on that.

 

[701757]

If I get into a long term relationship I would like it to be her best sex ever - can it ever be, after they experienced and enjoyed 10-11" cocks?

No, absolutely not. What were you thinking?

 

[jeff_infl]

But he was probably an asshole, right? Why arent they still dating.

She's dating YOU.

 

[Spoiler]

They weren't 11" this I guarantee you. I'm a true 7.5x6 and 99.9% of the women I've been with thought it was almost too much.

 

[AlsoRtsonex]

What if it's not the best sex YOU'VE ever had, but it's the best she's had? You're stuck in a cuckold mindset from growing up on porn. Where the guy with the biggest dick is the one that satisfies and you're the one with the camera.

Sex is about connecting with a person you care about. In a long term relationship, you'll swear there were moments of "the best I've ever had" and "the worst i've ever had" with the same person. It's a long season, don't get hung up on your bat.