her HUGE ex

[sandiasky9]

red44 made my day given where going with this and how direct and open she is/was with current beau... given still with him and presumably happily so yet another example that natural to worry about being "enough" for a lover but there are many, many other things on the list to cover before think about size

ktf40's caveat packed a reminder for me "presuming she broke up with him..."

Yes, I focus on learning my lover and being attentive and thanks to a couple good "teachers" would like to claim that I am a decent lover. One of things I cover well into a relationship is her past. You know, can I be her guy type of deal or am I just convenient until something better comes along. Plus, I have often learned a few things about her... "so and so and I would do this and I liked it", so I would instigate sex outdoors after hearing if "this" was said... and admittedly i am listening for some indication that I am "top five" or so if she has been with twenty five guys and what i am doing to earn said ranking and what i could do better to sneak up a couple slots, in the sex only category of things...

but in a total coincidence listening to Dr. Drew one night a couple years ago, the relationship was that long ago i heard a guy yammering about his girls past and how bothered he was by it... dr drew laid him out about she is with you, yada yada and the only thing about the past that you can hear from your girl is avoidance/diversionary tactics about her past from her... well, this girl was very evasive about her past, she could have been with five guys, twenty five guys, i was getting nothing and there seemed to be this big gap in her timelines... the gap was eventually learned and it was a guy that was, to her, incredible in bed, the best ever by far and HUGE and all of that - he broke up with her and it was pretty clear as time went that she was just going through relationships until "he" (or facsimile) came along again

conversely, my current lover had her John Holmes guy as just about any woman that has been with twenty guys has and it turns me on to hear about it: why? because it does AND she was open and all that about how things were "interesting", her word, with him due to his size but she also let's my ego glow with the talk about what i do better and all that and that she likes to get the jackhammer session now and again and my size, that above average but not big enough to be called large let alone huge, is perfect for intense sex....

in the perfect world the two of us will find that hugely endowed guy to join us a few times a year and i will bring the hammer and he will be the sledge... if he is slightly (yeah, not sure what that is and yet i am - no butt stuff but sensual and oral with a guy is hot to me) bi like me then yes the perfect world

 

[D_Tinker Ball]

Her ex was ~8.5"x6". I'm (only?) above average, but it never bothered me.
As many others here we even considered and toyed for a while with the MFM fantasy, even talked to the ex about it.
We never carried that out, though.

Probably same as follows:

Well she is into the idea of it. She likes talking about him, watching MFM porn, we've got a larger vibrator for her, and even do double penetration on her, which was entirely her idea. It's just hard for her to take such a leap as to actually add a third, and I think she is scared of the consequences, though enticed and turned on by it, and I'd certainly never force the idea!

I'd say, not really scared of the consequences. It seems somehow she just lost interest, for the time being.

 

[hud01]

Yeah, it would bother me. If the guy was really huge, like above 8x6 or something, I'd probably lose interest in the girl.

I completely agree with KTF40 - I didn't think I would care until I found myself in the situation that I'm in now. Maybe if I liked the girl more I could get over it over time, but this one? not so much

So your entire relationship is based on your having the biggest cock she has ever had...How deep

 

[KTF40]

So your entire relationship is based on your having the biggest cock she has ever had...How deep

Yeah sure, whatever you say. Nice ASSumption

I'm sure this also explains why I was in a relationship with a girl for 9 months when her ex was bigger than me.

In case you didn't realize, there is a difference between not being attracted to a girl who has had an ex with a huge dick and wanting to be the biggest she has ever had. One of these applies to what I wrote. The other doesn't.

 

[hud01]

Yeah, it would bother me. If the guy was really huge, like above 8x6 or something, I'd probably lose interest in the girl.

Yeah sure, whatever you say. Nice ASSumption

I'm sure this also explains why I was in a relationship with a girl for 9 months when her ex was bigger than me.

In case you didn't realize, there is a difference between not being attracted to a girl who has had an ex with a huge dick and wanting to be the biggest she has ever had. One of these applies to what I wrote. The other doesn't.

Ok douche bag... read what you wrote.

 

[KTF40]

Ok douche bag... read what you wrote.

Yes douche bag, read what I wrote. Where did I say I need to be the biggest? Like I said, nice ASSumption dumbass.

 

[vjduvall]

Unfortunately, this thread has become a bit mean... I was just interested to hear about guys who are comfortable with ... or even turned on by... the idea that the "Ex" was much bigger than they are.

In my case I am much smaller than my wife's EX and yet she chose me ... knowing full well that I was smaller because she had not yet broken up with the Ex when we first got together. She could have just just "called it quits" with me when she found out I was small, and just go back to her "monster-cock" boyfriend. But no... she chose to be with me and leave him and his be huge powerful cock.

Clearly, there were things that she really loved about his big cock. She loved how he could "stretch" her to the absolute limit with his extremely thick penis. She's told me how she loved that feeling of being stretch. And I just can't give her that intense feeling. My cock his too thin and too small to stretch her. So there is no doubt that his big cock could do things that my small cock cannot do. And yet she chose me!

So there must be something about me that makes me better than him. And that is oral and anal sex. She loves to deepthroat my tiny cock, because it is so easy compared to his big cock. And she loves to have me fuck her up the ass - something that she would never let Mister "Big hose" do... And that is why I am so comfortable with hearing her tell me how he could give her amazing orgasms with his massive cock. The reality is that I just can't give her intense orgasms. I am just too small. I just can't give her orgasms like he could. My cock is too small and not powerful enough to make her cum that way. And yet she chose me. So there must be something about my small cock that makes her happier than his big hose! What it is is that she loves to take my tiny cock in her mouth and she loves to feel my tiny cock in her ass.



VJ

 

[jakesph]

One of my fiances ex's was about 8.5x6 and I couldnt care less. If size was an issue for her we wouldn't be engaged. All but one of her fb's has been larger than me. It doesn't bother me as I am the one who gets to fuck her more than just that one time

 

[chengkang]

for me it is okay as long as i love my new partner...so size doesn't matter

 

[Justmytwocents]

I agree with the previous poster. A long time ago, it bothered me big time. Now it doesn't and the thought of it I find a turn on. Too bad that my wifes previous two men were both smaller than me LOL!

 

[D_Suckleberry Hound]

turns
me
on

 

[phoenix_blue90]

i think men may put more importance on penis size than women.

 

[petite]

i think men may put more importance on penis size than women.

+10

Women care more about orgasms than the size of a man's equipment.

Women get jealous, too. I'm jealous of TheBF's ex-fuckbuddy who could do things I can't do, like deep throat him. I'm still working on learning how to do that. He likes my bottom a lot more than hers, though. :smile:

 

[olp79]

my ex was once with a guy that she described as huge. i'm above average myself and she was crazy about my cock (insisted it was the nicest she'd ever seen) but it turned me on to no end that she'd had bigger. the thing is, she wasn't that interested in the guy. apparently she just gave him a blowjob and he came in like 2 minutes. she didn't want to fuck him b/c it was too big / would be too quick. long story short, i think i was more turned on by it than her, although she would fantasize about big dicks in porn. just goes to show that guys are probably more interested in dick size than women. still makes for good j/o material!

 

[D_Edwin Eatser]

We've discussed the sizes of cocks she's had and it hasn't worried me to hear about her bigger men, in fact I found it arousing. If she was always going on about them or comparing me to them it would be different.

 

[vjduvall]

When my wife gives me my daily deepthroat, I often ask her to open her mouth as wide as she used to open it with her EX and do the up-and-down motion as though she was blowing him. I just LOVE when she does that - I can see how much bigger her EX was - I can almost feel his big cock inside her wide-open mouth. I just love to think how huge he was compared to me. I also often ask her to do the same thing when she gives me a hand-job: doing the motion as though she was holding his big cock; as though his big cock was superimposed over my tiny cock. I LOVE IT when she does this and tells me how different his big POWERFUL cock felt in her hand, compared to my delicate little dink. I am so glad she had him before me.

VJ

 

[rob_just_rob]

I don't generally become aware of whether my partners' exes are bigger than I am. If it was that much of an issue for the women, though... they are always free to leave, and there's always other women who will be interested...

 

[zujmyhezk86]

In reality I would care for the first nano second before we were t have sex , assuming she told me that before we ever started having sex, but after the fact I would just be like hell she's with me now and hopefully I fucked her good enough that the size doesn't matter to her.

I had an incident where I told the girl I was seeing that I gave up the opportunity to fuck a white woman to be with her. We were joking around but she came back with "I gave up the chance to fuck a really big dick to be with you." That's when I shut up and became slightly insecure in my mind but covered it with a smile. She then went on to tell me that the guy was a friend of hers who was trying to hit it. He used to pull it out and "Drape it" over her shoulder. She said she didn't like him but it made her think... We ended up fucking that night and my insecurities were relieved when she came for the third time drenching my dick with her cream and telling me "I love your penis" It made me feel good about myself lol.

Z

 

[cornpop]

My girlfriend only had one larger dick and she says she had a 1 month relationship and had sex 2 times. After that she said to him she was feeling ill or she was menstruating.

mine is not that big, it's 7 by 5,75 and she says I'm the first one letting her cum with only penetration.

 

[D_Barbi_Dahl]

Did he ask you or did you divulge that info, because if its the former then that is quite inconsiderate imo, here you are with a new partner and you not only tell him he is smaller than your ex but that sex with the ex was the best you ever had?

Methinks this relationship will be very short-lived and not just because of this. How would you feel if a new partner divulged something like that to you? That their previous partner had the tightest pussy ever and sex?

He asked. And he also took it upon himself to look at all of the pix on my computer...so he saw it there. I do not tell him that he's too small. I am not like that. Kinda sucks that you're assuming the worst and you don't even know me.

I've not complained to him about his size. Not once. But I think our relationship is over anyway...he can't get over the fact that he thinks he's too small for me.