Hello Everyone, I need help! my gf and I didn't have sex for the last 3 months. She just has 0 libido, and I just don't know what to do anymore. We've been in an awesome relationship for the last 3 years and sex was awesome at the beginning but it gradually phased out. she's often tired, or simply doesn't want to. Otherwise we talk about marriage, our future and honestly I've never been as implicated emotionally and intellectually with someone before and I deeply, profoundly love her. She loves to cuddle, we love to do things together, i mean really every other aspect of the relationship is really awesome....so why no sex?! She can't tell me what's wrong. Pill didn't help. we switched to another one, seemed better at first but it slowly went back to the black hole of libido. She had at least one orgasm almost every time we made love, she tells me she likes it but somehow doesn't feel like going through all the act. She tells me it's not anything i do or don't, she's not attracted to anyone else, she just can't say why. So I'm completely lost here. I don't know how to revive this, but i need and want to. I know i won't be able to stay faithful to her if we don't have sex, no matter how awesome our relation is (call me shallow, but that's just how it is) So here I am. Anyone got through this problem before? have any suggestion? books to recommend? Eventually we'll end up at the sexologist, but it's so damn expensive :frown1: thank you for your inputs!