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I've been going out with this girl for several months, and for some reason we talked a lot about our past early on. She told me that I was the biggest she's ever had, "by far." This is kind of hard for me to believe. She also told me that she'd been with 13 other guys, and honestly I just don't see myself as being bigger than a random selection of 13 guys.

So my question is, for anyone who's been in that many legitimate (i.e. not hooking up on LPSG, that's not fair!) relationships: what are the chances that she's telling me the truth, or lying to me? I'm not quite even 7 inches long, pretty girthy. She told me that I had the longest and thickest cock of these 14 people though.

I lack gym showering experiences. I just don't know how I stack up to other people at all. I definitely don't think I'm big enough for what she claims though. Thanks for any input.
 

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Why do you find it so hard to believe your the biggest she's had? There's nothing you can really do about this as well, if she says you are the biggest she's had then you must accept this -- there's no alternative. From the stats you've provided you sound pretty big, i've been with a fair few guys in my time and you measure it quite well.
 

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Why do you find it so hard to believe your the biggest she's had? There's nothing you can really do about this as well, if she says you are the biggest she's had then you must accept this -- there's no alternative. From the stats you've provided you sound pretty big, i've been with a fair few guys in my time and you measure it quite well.

Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I know I can't really do much else but accept what she says, but I'm just having a real hard time believing it. I guess it's difficult for me because practically the only comparing I've done is on this site. If the average cock is 6-7 inches long, I just don't get how I'd be the biggest of 14 guys. I'm modestly in the top range of that average. To accept what she says, I have to believe that out of 13 random people, all of them were smaller than average.
 

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guy, you are a young stud, it is possible you know how to use your unit better than others, enjoy the glow of being a good lover, ultimate compliment, return the favor to her for many more adventures.
 

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First of all, most girls only notice a significant difference in a mans size. Subtle differences in size are for the most part unremarkable. If not one of her 13 previous were in the unusually large category then she is paying you an honest compliment because she doesn't really know exactly. What else do you have going for you?
 

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Once again, go to Wikkipedia: Average Penis Size. Average is 5.1 - 5.9" x 5". I'm about your size, and almost every cock I've seen is smaller than mine. Locker rooms are no indicator, because flaccid size bears little relationship to erect size. Also, neither porno or this site is a good reference point. Average flaccid size is 3.5", and I was on a nude beach with a guy like that who grew a monster hardon! I have a buddy who likes to show off his fat flaccid cock in the shower, but it only grows about an inch and a half when it gets hard.
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I just checked out your pix and your dick is really quite big. I think you should believe your girl and be happy that your issue is having the biggest dick! :)
 

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StateOfMind - I just looked at your pics. You DO have a nice big cock, above average, and it is not hard for me to believe that you are the biggest of her partners. I bet she is telling you the truth.

I agree with the other posters - either porn, or this site, is not a good comparison to the "real world" average size, and since there is not necessarily a correlation between limp and erect the locker room / shower is not actually helpful either. Be happy with your size, happy that she is saying you are the biggest, and enjoy the sex.

Someone on here has a great quote in their signature: something like "50% of cocks are above average size." You certainly are in that group.
 

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First off your data is incorrect. Average is 5" - 5.5" based on that alone you are well above average and definetely large. Therefore her statement is correct.

The most important thing to remember is that she likes you and your penis. Keep worrying about whether or not she lied to you when she clearly did not and you may lose her. :frown1:

I've been going out with this girl for several months, and for some reason we talked a lot about our past early on. She told me that I was the biggest she's ever had, "by far." This is kind of hard for me to believe. She also told me that she'd been with 13 other guys, and honestly I just don't see myself as being bigger than a random selection of 13 guys.

So my question is, for anyone who's been in that many legitimate (i.e. not hooking up on LPSG, that's not fair!) relationships: what are the chances that she's telling me the truth, or lying to me? I'm not quite even 7 inches long, pretty girthy. She told me that I had the longest and thickest cock of these 14 people though.

I lack gym showering experiences. I just don't know how I stack up to other people at all. I definitely don't think I'm big enough for what she claims though. Thanks for any input.
 
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Just feel lucky if she enjoys it. I'm my gf's # 8 and the largest shes ever had. I couldn't really believe her either. But as long as she's happy so am I.
 

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To refine njqt466's stats a bit further, research studies have put the average at around 5.1" ... so at close to 7" erect you are actually almost 40 percent longer than average.

These same studies have put 6.2" at about 80th percentile and 7.3" at about 97th percentile. So at close to 7" you'd be above the 90th percentile and it's not really surprising that you'd be the largest among 13 men.

I'll also say from my own personal experience that it's very easy for us straight guys -- who generally only see and "know" our own erections -- to come to view our own size as somehow "normal" or "average," even when it is objectively not. Despite ample evidence to the contrary, I still sometimes have trouble believing I am THAT large relative to other guys.

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Oh dude look at my old posts for a topic I created (one of my first). I have the SAME thoughts as you. My girl has slept with 20 guys or something and still tells me I'm the longest and the fattest (and the best hehe). I am just over 7 and 6 around. I have ended up just believing her. I reckon there are probably a couple of others she had in the 7-8 range but if you check my lucozade photo thats a comparison of 7.3 and 8 so in her mind she may not really know the difference.

Take it as a compliment.

If you are like me you would rather have just heard you are big, than being put number 1 in a possibly fake poll. Am I right?
 

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I lack gym showering experiences. I just don't know how I stack up to other people at all. I definitely don't think I'm big enough for what she claims though. Thanks for any input.


May I ask why this particular thought is so important to you? If she is happy, and she thinks you are great, does the rest really matter? Personally, I think you are just putting yourself through more grief. Best to just take the compliment and enjoy it. Maybe you know how to use your cock better than the rest?
 

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to the OP: I don't think it would be that odd that you'd be the largest she'd had. Of my exes, I was always the largest they'd had, and they'd all been with at least a few guys before me. I'm about your size too, 7x5.5. Goes to show that while 7 inches isn't that big around here, in the real world it's a mighty big size.
 

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Also 7 inches is gonna be big for a girl to look at from below, when you consider you probably have about 3 - 4 inches of excess shaft and balls so a visual of about 10 - 11 inches.
 

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Thanks for all of the great posts.

State Of Mind: Your's is definately larger than any of the last 13 men I've had!

I have come across bigger, but only very rarely.
That's really good to hear. Pretty much the "confirmation" I was looking for.

Also, they must have a really hard time with these penis size studies. I've seen so many different numbers. 5.1" is kind of hard to believe.
 

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My gf has been with close to 30 partners. At 6.5 X 6 I am the 3rd largest she's had. One other guy was a little over 7" but not as girthy and her largest was 9" which she described as enormous and not enjoyable. 7" with your thickness is something considered huge by most women, but also a very enjoyable size. take the compliment and enjoy the sex.

Also according to my gf. most men are about 5" and really not girthy. Your penis is very big!
 

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First off your data is incorrect. Average is 5" - 5.5" based on that alone you are well above average and definetely large. Therefore her statement is correct.

The most important thing to remember is that she likes you and your penis. Keep worrying about whether or not she lied to you when she clearly did not and you may lose her. :frown1:

She said everything I was gunna say...other than, I feel your pain. Its hard believing women nowadays. Especially when it comes to things like relationships.