I am seeing this girl and she has performed oral sex on me, I havent yet performed on her. I have manually stimulated her vagina and we have had some nude genital touching. After all this, she then tells me she has genital herpes. Am I wrong to get upset that she didnt tell me before we had any sexual contact? If it was the reverse, I would have told her before we had any sexual contact. She claims she would have told me before actual sex, but I dont know if I believe that. Thanks for any input.