He annoys me as well. And keep in mind, I LOVE fem guys. I've seen ENDLESS amounts of straight acting queens get a couple drinks in them and then turn into Agnes Moorehead, so many times it is all just a big fat facade, because there is this self hatred of our true selves going on in today's gay community, it makes me sad (There truly ARE guys who are straight acting, though, this is obvious). Brad grates on my nerves, though. I can't put my finger on it, I think it's his voice and the nerd factor. He's not naturally a nerd, he' TRYING to look nerdy, so therefore it doesn't work. And with his voice, it's not the fem factor, but the tone of his voice. Carson Kressley drives me nuts for the same reasons. But I adore Ambrose Price, Graham Norton... and although I don't think he's hot... Hell, I like Boy George's personality, and he doesn't annoy me in the least.