so a few months back i met a guy and i feel that we hit it off almost instantly. he told me he'd be moving in a few months, but at the time it seemed ages away and it didn't even bother me. over the past couple of months we've been "seeing" one another we have had our ups and downs, but in the end i feel we still really liked one another. it was great to finally be with someone who i genuinely liked, and from what i could tell he genuinely liked me too. he said from day one he didn't want a serious relationship to develop between us because we would get too attached and it would be heartbreaking when he had to leave. the past couple of weeks it feels like he has tried to keep me an arms length away to stop the relationship from developing too far. not too long ago we had a talk and we both admitted that we were feeling attached. a couple of days ago was the last day i got to see him. that night he was texting me saying he already misses me. i was at work and found it very hard to hold back the tears. he told me we had to meet the morning of his departure, however we did not. he left this weekend. no text, no phone call, no nothing. i haven't heard from him in two days. i know this is probably his way of dealing with things, and to be honest i do feel heart broken. i'm trying so hard to not contact him for once and let him contact me. i'm so tempted to send him a message and ask "what the fuck??!" - but i don't want to come across too strong. he's all i've been able to think of and it's making me very sad. i know what most of you are going to say - "get over it already!" well i'm sorry, but it's not that easy. i'm going to leave it another day and if he hasn't contacted me i want to send him a message. i'm so unsure about what to say though. i'm pissed that he hasn't said anything to me, but i don't want that to show. i know i will have to either get over him or make the decision to go out to where he went. i can't just go meet another guy to get over him, not when he's on my mind like this. how should i deal with this? i've had my heart broken one too many times, i don't know how much more of this i can take. any advice at all?