He's on his way

[Chase1600]

Said no to both offers... i gave head, he lifted my legs up, lubed and fucked m. Way thicker then me, idk, 6.5 I think.... Hurt terribly. Same length though... ow... imma cry then go to bed. 20 minutes hurts...

YHM, when you’re up, check in with us. Hope you are OK. Sounds disappointing. Whatever your judgments we can be there for you. It doesn’t sound as if this guy was very considerate of you.

 

[JetID]

my first time was with quite a big guy and while it didnt go in easily, it was not a painful experience because the guy was actually patient and payed attention to how i felt. since that first time ive had much more painful sex with guys who were much smaller but didnt take this sort of care. it matters.

tbh getting some random dude from the internet who doesnt give a shit and just wants to shove his cock inside as quickly as possible was clearly a terrible idea

That's true. I wasn't thinking of it that way. He can do better.

 

[maxcok]

dont do him again, it sounds like he made no effort to make it less painful for you. believe it or not getting fucked by a big dick does NOT have to make you want to cry afterward

Remember, he's never done it before so maybe he just has "first timer's disease". Too much, too fast to be able to enjoy it. Once he can take it comfortably, he can get to enjoying it 100%.

my first time was with quite a big guy and while it didnt go in easily, it was not a painful experience because the guy was actually patient and payed attention to how i felt. since that first time ive had much more painful sex with guys who were much smaller but didnt take this sort of care. it matters.

tbh getting some random dude from the internet who doesnt give a shit and just wants to shove his cock inside as quickly as possible was clearly a terrible idea

That's true. I wasn't thinking of it that way. He can do better.

A) It's not his first time, not by a long shot.

B) He likes it rough. He likes to be 'split apart'. He also likes to be abused and humiliated.

Check out this two month old thread for starters:

Sorry to those who I've turned down in the past. Some of you might know that I bottomed a few times when I was 16 and 18. Now... Im doing it again.

I just felt the need to try it, posted an add on craigslist, had a crapton of replies. Picked a sane person out.

Ends up he is the band director at a semi-local high school. He's 48, decent looking, good shape, well endowed.

Its good. Sex is great. He is a gentle compassionate lover when I need that. He broke me in very very gently. And we've worked up to some extremly hard brutal poundings.

Outside of his bed Im the straightest acting guy, very dominant in all my interactions. In his bed, well I like to be dominated and the like. Pushed down, held down, cummed on, talk dirty too, etc.

^^ Is that even normal? Its pretty much something Im kind of ashamed of and excited by.

For those who need his dimensions I've measured for my own curiousity. He is 7.5 x 6.5. Large head.

Guess if the reply is decent enough, I would maybe try and get some pics, of me taking it or sucking on him?

Id also be interested in trying a different man in the area....

Don't really know what Im looking from this, maybe just to get it off my chest I guess.

Or this thread . . .

I'd rather bottom. I like being dominated.

Seconded

Or this thread . . .

I dont relax during, like it when im tight and being split apart the whole time.

Or anything in this thread . . .

Oh hell... Id love to be fucked by that.

And other threads besides. As tachyon says:

lol you need to update your 100% straightness..

No shit.

 

[crescendo69]

I assume the other guy was also 100% straight?

Glad you.. enjoyed it.

 

[dylz]

looool sounds like he might have been pounded more times than i have! maybe i should change to 100% straight?

 

[maxcok]

^ Let me put it this way. He's been pounded more in the past two months than I have in the past 25 years, and apparently a hell of a lot harder than I ever was. And he seems to like it. Alot. So yeah, this whole "straight acting, straight appearing" act is utter bullshit.

 

[dylz]

"straight acting" fellas say the darndest things!

 

[DiscoBoy]

By and far the absolute gayest thread I've ever read in my life.

 

[JetID]

Tachyon nailed it. I'd say he's at least 1%, yes?

 

[maxcok]

Tachyon nailed it. I'd say he's at least 1%, yes?

Well, it's not the first time he's been nailed. :wink:

I guess it depends how much time he spends having sex. I suppose it's possible he's getting pounded in the ass only 1% of the time, and the other 99% of the time he's "straight". Or as Crescendo suggests, maybe he only has sex with other straight guys.

 

[JetID]

Well, it's not the first time he's been nailed. :wink:

I guess it depends how much time he spends having sex. I suppose it's possible he's getting pounded in the ass only 1% of the time, and the other 99% of the time he's "straight". Or as Crescendo suggests, maybe he only has sex with other straight guys.

I think that's what must be happening. I mean sure, maybe he hasn't had anything but butt-pounding sex, as a bottom, in the last year, but that is not gay.

 

[Chase1600]

maxcok has been quite correct. In a distinct thread, he and I expressed differing thoughts about people calling themselves straight when their behavior is clearly gay.

Nevertheless, I think YoungHungMachine’s behavior demonstrates something interesting. By my definition his decision to call himself 100% straight is “behavior.” Similarly, his decision to willingly post details of his getting fucked by a guy is “behavior.” I.e., his posting it is an act separate from the act of his doing it. He’s smart enough to have kept quiet or lied and claimed he was fucking a girl.

It wasn't accidentally that we discovered his contradiction. YHM reveals it.

"All people always tell the truth all the time." Of course it's overstatement. Barely so. Recognize word choices as actions as well as abstract concepts and recognize how people reveal as much in the choice-making of words as might the words themselves; invariably the juxtaposition between word-choice-making seen as a discrete action from the physical reality being described tells much.

I remain more concerned about YHM’s state of mind after his unhappy experience getting nailed than his state of mind with respect to wanting to call himself straight while concurrently revealing he let himself be some stranger’s pussy. And rather than concern myself with the hypocritical, I’ll be more interested in YHM’s personality dynamic that has him claiming to be straight while compelled to reveal the impossibility of it.

It isn’t that maxcok is wrong, nor is he out of line, nor is his post irrelevant.

YMH makes himself a legit subject of discussion.

In real life we know of persons who speak as vicious homophobes yet hide in video arcades to suck – or something comparable. I don’t know YHM is on course to being such a person; but I don’t know he may never be. Which raises the point. Understanding how there is great truth to the otherwise exaggerated statement: “all people always tell the truth all the time” is a step to understanding how to insure our never becoming a fraud and not falling for the words of someone who would be a fraud.

 

[YoungHungMachine]

Actually... I just dont know how to change it... Thanks though, deleting my profile as soon as i figure it out.

 

[maxcok]

It's very simple to change the details in your profile that you entered when you set up your account.
Even a cyberklutz like me can do it.

Go to your profile page. Click on "About me". Click on "sexual orientation". Pick a number. Done.

 

[D_Andreas Sukov]

Oh well.

 

[Countryguy63]

Actually... I just dont know how to change it... Thanks though, deleting my profile as soon as i figure it out.

Well, it's your choice, but I hope that you don't delete your entire profile. (Actually, you can't. You have to ask the Mods, and they will discontinue the usage of it, and assign it a fictitous name)

I will certainly offer to help you change the percentage numbers if you would like.

However, that said... Max, I love you, but I don't get what is so important about what numbers someone has on their profile. None of us owe anyone here complete honesty. Hell, look at all of the anonymous stuff here. We're not personally involved in anyones life. We don't effect their lives with those numbers. As far as I know, YHM hasn't said "I'm straight" at least not lately that I have seen.

If he was in the belief that he was straight when he registered, became open to experimenting, and now has decided that anal is awesome, Good On Him :biggrin1:

I, like you and others, roll my eyes anytime someone says "I'm straight, but... And in society, I will agree that the "closet gays/bi's are cheating others. But I think we need to consider the importance of those numbers, instead of concentrating on them :smile:

 

[maxcok]

Nevertheless, I think YoungHungMachine’s behavior demonstrates something interesting. By my definition his decision to call himself 100% straight is “behavior.”

Typically this is considered "identity", not "behavior". It is the disconnect between how people identity themselves vs. their behavior that is the issue.

However, that said... Max, I love you, but I don't get what is so important about what numbers someone has on their profile. None of us owe anyone here complete honesty. Hell, look at all of the anonymous stuff here. We're not personally involved in anyones life. We don't effect their lives with those numbers. As far as I know, YHM hasn't said "I'm straight" at least not lately that I have seen.

The question came up over two months ago in that prior thread, the one that I quoted first in my post. YHM said back then, as now, that he couldn't figure out how to change his orientation numbers. It's a dodge. I'm hardly the only one to raise the question, as you will see if you read through that thread and subsequent threads. You will also see that I and others offered him positive support then, and suggested helpful ways for him to come to grips with his confusion. It's hardly surprising that people continue to question his 100% straight identity when virtually all of his subsequent posts contradict that, and in pretty graphic terms.

You're right. YHM doesn't owe anyone complete honesty, or anything else for that matter. I never said he did. My concern is that he be honest with himself, both here and in real life. If he were, he would reflect that in his percentages, or just eliminate that line in his profile. Living in denial is not healthy.

 

[Countryguy63]

I know, but at least he's admitting here that he engages in m2m, and enjoys it :biggrin1:

Heck, in my book, that puts him way ahead of a considerable percentage of the other "straight" men here :biggrin1:

 

[brooklynjackp]

Thank you, country guy.
Or - we can keep ripping on the guy - maybe it will
make our own lives more fulfilling <EG>

 

[Countryguy63]

Heck, I'm in a totally committed relationship with an awesome man myself, so some could argue that I should change my percentages, but I'm gonna leave it :tongue:

I do want to clear up one of my statements, about myself personally....

When I said none of "us" owe anyone here any honesty, I do also feel that not being honest, even here, can and probably does leave you with an empty feeling, whether you want to recognize it or not.

One of things that I most enjoy about this site, above any other site, is that I can come here and totally be myself With me, what you see is what you get (may not always be a good thing , lol)