He's on his way

[tlbuncut5]

Cowboy, you are awesome. I alway enjoy reading what you have to say. Wish you lived closer to me...:smile:

Heck, I'm in a totally committed relationship with an awesome man myself, so some could argue that I should change my percentages, but I'm gonna leave it :tongue:

I do want to clear up one of my statements, about myself personally....

When I said none of "us" owe anyone here any honesty, I do also feel that not being honest, even here, can and probably does leave you with an empty feeling, whether you want to recognize it or not.

One of things that I most enjoy about this site, above any other site, is that I can come here and totally be myself With me, what you see is what you get (may not always be a good thing , lol)

 

[Countryguy63]

Aww, Thank You :redface:
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How much offerin to move me?? :scratchchin:

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[D_Tim McGnaw]

Thank you, country guy.
Or - we can keep ripping on the guy - maybe it will
make our own lives more fulfilling <EG>

Meh, if you post the intimate details of your sex life in a public forum for thousands to see and the information you present isn't congruent with how you represent yourself you should expect people to call you on it.

If someone posted here about how much money they like to spend, getting up to all kinds of expensive things and boasting about costly purchases and simultaneously proclaimed that they were penniless, people would be rightly perturbed by the seeming contradiction and would question it, and would be justifiably interested in trying to get to the truth of what this person was saying about themselves.

If you add in to the mix that sexuality is in fact a highly controversial subject, seeming to misrepresent oneself about one's sexuality is bound to draw strong opinion and close questioning.

People can think this is unfair and that we should be allowed to call ourselves what ever we want, but surely the same freedom applies to how people react to what we identify ourselves as, and people should be free to question and offer their opinion on what is after all information we have made public about ourselves.

If people don't want others to question them about the things they say about themselves and their sex lives then they probably shouldn't make such information public.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

Complete stranger from craigslist...

Just invited him over. He's on his way. 30 mintues....

He says its big...

Yes it was one of those omg I have to get fucked craiglist scan nights... Will keep updated.

sounds incredibly dangerous and unsafe in so many ways. wish you well and good luck.

 

[brooklynjackp]

Country, you're a wise guy (and I dont mean sarcastic, or mobbed up!)
You keep it simple,and that is appreciated.
J

 

[maxcok]

Thank you, country guy.
Or - we can keep ripping on the guy - maybe it will
make our own lives more fulfilling <EG>

Did it make your life more fulfilling to post that?

I don't think people are ripping on him so much as pointing out the obvious and unhealthy disconnect that many "straight acting /straight apppearing" men have between their sexual desires and sexual behavior vs. how they identify themselves, to themselves and others. Other posters made that point in their unique individual ways.

I know for me it was not my intent to "rip on the guy", but to correct a misconception held by several posters that this was a first time experience and that YHM suffered, when he is actually pretty experienced and got exactly what he was looking for. I suspect his 'crying' has more to do with guilt, and his conflict over the way he wants to be vs. the way he is. I suspect that he wants to be controlled, dominated and humiliated because it relieves him on some level from owning up to his desires. If you read through that first thread, you might come to the same conclusion. In fact, YHM confirmed and acknowledged that himself:

max has it about right.... dontknwo how to change the percentages sorry... get off my back folks lol.... or if you wantto get onto my back... well you know the drill....

I do kind of need to be dominated to feel ok doing it. Idk... Called dirty names and bitch boi, etc.

Sometimes offering someone support means not encouraging self-delusions and not supporting unhealthy behaviors and unhealthy self-justifications. Sometimes offering someone support requires being honest and straightforward, and not tying it up in pretty ribbons and bows.

One of things that I most enjoy about this site, above any other site, is that I can come here and totally be myself With me, what you see is what you get (may not always be a good thing , lol)

It's a good thing, CG. You're a good thing.