He's too sensitive.

[sanaxx]

I have a FwB that I enjoy very much. Due especially to his ability to properly use a leather belt. My problem is that his cock is too sensitive for pretty much anything more than penetration.

Hand jobs, and blowjobs hurt him. He wants them, but they are painful. Usually causing him to be unable to finish. I know numbing creams are an option, I just don't want him to lose too much feeling. I'd love for him to enjoy himself.

I LOVE giving head and I know he'd love getting a good sloppy one with some throat fucking. How can I make sure he's not too numb? Any good advice from other guys like this?

I don't want to give up on him. He is incrediblely sexy, has me dripping wet after some impact play. And he's one of the most uncomplicated parts of my life.

Please tell me there is something I can do!!

 

[sanaxx]

Sooooo, this post is moot. He broke things off today. But maybe we can get some good advice for future situations.

 

[Fun4All]

I have known guys where their cock was too sensitive AFTER they cum - but never heard of someone too sensitive for a blow job.

 

[headbang8]

Is it painful to him, or simply distressing? People on the spectrum can avoid being touched in sensitive spots. Not because it hurts, but because they don’t like the feeling. I’m mildly on the spectrum, and occasionally a touch feels too familiar.

 

[JD__OL992]

When I was dealing with more extreme anxiety I swear mine was also too sensitive, blowjobs were either a blessing or for some reason a bit painful, also due meds I had a hard time getting hard too, but well.

 

[Stu311]

Sooooo, this post is moot. He broke things off today. But maybe we can get some good advice for future situations.

That ended quickly. Hope his sensitivity wasn't the issue. Out of curiosity, was he uncut?

 

[sanaxx]

That ended quickly. Hope his sensitivity wasn't the issue. Out of curiosity, was he uncut?

He was cut. it didn't end as quickly as the post seems to make it. We had been sort of seeing each other for a couple months. At the start he did tell me that he was "mostly asexual", but he did enjoy sex from time to time. He was definitely into my impact play kink. He was sooooo fucking good with the belt and his hands. I'm very very sad that he's no longer going to play with me. He still flirts with me and we still chat, we are actually friends, so he's not totally gone from my life, just no longer in my bed.

 

[Stu311]

He was cut. it didn't end as quickly as the post seems to make it. We had been sort of seeing each other for a couple months. At the start he did tell me that he was "mostly asexual", but he did enjoy sex from time to time. He was definitely into my impact play kink. He was sooooo fucking good with the belt and his hands. I'm very very sad that he's no longer going to play with me. He still flirts with me and we still chat, we are actually friends, so he's not totally gone from my life, just no longer in my be

Glad it ended on good terms at least!

Does sound like he maybe did not play enough with his penis to get used to the stimulation. I only really had hypersensitivty as an uncut teen. As a cut adult, my head can take a lot of stimulation without it feeling painful or numbing. Granted, I have made good use of it for years.