AlteredEgo
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If you got that from what he wrote, it is because you wanted to. I can't speak to someotherguy's experience, but I do know that I do not find it remotely disturbing to see two other women in love. Like any other couples, when I see happy lesbians running errands together or canoodling, I can't help but smile, and see their happiness as hope for the continued happiness in my own relationship with my husband.Originally Posted by someotherguy
"A person who enjoys sex with both males & females but considers themself heterosexual in the sense that they do not relate with the same sex for an emotional relationship like a bi-sexual could. Heteroflexible is a heterosexual person that is beyond the bi-curious stage but would never engage in an emotional relationship with the same sex."
....of course, it is absolutely obscene to think that a heterosexual person could EVER have an emotional relationship with someone of the same gender. I mean it's perfectly fine to fuck or suck them into oblivion, but to love them is downright disgusting!!!!
Sometimes, when I meet some women, I would like to have sex with them. So, in the past, if we were both available for that, that's what we did. I was always pretty well-acquainted with any woman with whom I slept; on the other hand, I never felt any pressing need to know men particularly well before I trusted them enough for sex.
I have never wanted to make any romantic overtures to any women, nor have I wanted to receive any. I have never been on a date with a woman. Even considering a date seems strange to me. Why go on a date with a woman? I don't want a girlfriend. I have had intense chemistry with a woman to the point where we were very handsy and smoochy before we could get where we were going to go have sex. A public display of passion with a woman wasn't something I needed to avoid. I was never ashamed of laying with girls. So I know there is no impetus to hide my girl on girl shenanigans motivating me to avoid a romantic entanglement with another woman. I just don't like ladies that way. And if I had to be exclusive with a woman, I'd really miss the peen.
I only ever felt or desired to feel romantic with men. And when I'm horny, the go-to solution in my mind is to find a man to work that out with. To call myself totally straight would be to lie. Bisexuality implies an equal or nearly equal attraction when I hear it. Me? I'm heteroflexible. I'd always prefer to fuck a man, but sometimes, if it's the right woman, I could prefer her too. But only for sex, and beyond that, only for platonic love.
If you are reading anything negative or hateful into those feelings, those thoughts originate inside you. You may have some questions to ask yourself about your sexuality.