I recently moved in with my first wife after being apart for 30 years. I had remarried several times and she had once. He died 9 years ago and she has been by herself ever since. This has worked out very good for both of us. We have a son and for the most part have remained friends during this time. The fly in the ointment is that it is a very platonic relationship at this point. While we are getting along better than in earlier days. It would be nice to be a little more intimate too. Even just being naked around each other would be fun. My ex-wife has never had a very high sex drive, and has been without any stimulation for a long time. I know from things she has said that sex was lacking even before the early death of her husband, due to abuse issues. I would like to get her revved up a little if I could. It would probably make her feel better. We didn't really have any sex issues in earlier years. But, now I am not really sure what, if anything, to do. I certainly don't want to cause any problems here, but would like to still function as a sexual human being. Any thoughts?