Hey A College Freshman With A Question

[ytrewq96]

When you pee,stop the flow. This will strengthen the PC muscles and allow you to control your ejaculation.

 

[shyenglishgirl]

Ughh why do guys wanna last longer! I need about 5 minutes and I'm a very happy bunny! Any more than 15 and I'm in pain! Lol

 

[B_subgirrl]

Ughh why do guys wanna last longer! I need about 5 minutes and I'm a very happy bunny! Any more than 15 and I'm in pain! Lol

Why do guys want to last longer?

a) Because it makes them feel good about themselves.

b) Because sex feels good and

c) Because many women (and men, in the case of same sex partners) want them to. Less than an hour and I'm unfulfilled.

 

[D_Harry_Pitts]

im gonna say breathe, man. there is a reason pornstars make so much noise. pulling out or stopping can be annoying for your partner. ive noticed with women normally im about to cum when they are, their vagina rapidly contracting is what heightens the experience. they can get annoyed, or let down if you keep pullin out or stopping everytime theyre close. so breathe, grunt like a pornstar. it helps release some of that feeling without having to stop or interrupt the sex

 

[Frnkd213]

Think of this?

Why did I look at this , I'll never be able to fuck now!

 

[Stephenmass]

Besides edging, there are also other things as long as you know how to stop before "the point of no return". If you are reaching that point....make it a part of your lovemaking to pull out, perhaps eat her a bit (a LOT) and get her nice and wetter, maybe have an orgasm or two, all the while it gives your dick a lot of time to calm down. Go back in at some point and do it all again or keep on going if you want to cum, up to you. It's the same as edging except it's with a vagina instead - not a bad tradeoff if you ask me. And she will thank you for it because chances are you will not only get her off with your tongue and such, but she will achieve herself probably multiple orgasms, especially if you are proficient with your tongue. She doesn't even have to know you are reaching the point of no return and pulling out for a bit and going back in for a bit repeatedly if you become skilled at it!!

 

[Viper73]

One trick I always used was if I blew my load I just kept going. That let me keep my erection. Maybe a quick condom swap... Rounds 2 or 3 are way more fun anyway

 

[D_Pubert Farnsworth]

Lol just a quick thing,,, I don't have ED. I would just like to be able to further my natural limit thus far.

 

[Stephenmass]

What is your limit now? Maybe it's at a perfectly normal range.

 

[ItalianStallion1]

When it starts to get good and you feel like you are about to bust, start focusing all your attention on something else but keep the movements going. I usually try looking at a clock or focus on something on the wall. Also, if i really need to last longer, start biting your tongue hard enough to hurt, might help a little bit.

 

[D_Jay Sockafeller]

Hey I know you don't wanna bust too soon, but if i was going down on a girl or if she jumped on me and had an orgasm soon or before I did I would be stoked. I know women like to feel attractive to their partners (heck we all do!), but if you finish early just make sure not to leave her hanging...LICK!

 

[niceeasygui]

Good edging sets you up. When your deep self feels it wants and is coming to the point of no return, slow down while breathing deeply and then enter into and surrender to your orgasm very deliberately, extending your stroke/thrust actions to complete experience.

 

[RawDog]

Why do guys want to last longer?

a) Because it makes them feel good about themselves.

Agree

b) Because sex feels good and

Agree x 2

c) Because many women (and men, in the case of same sex partners) want them to. Less than an hour and I'm unfulfilled.

Agree x Infinity!

"Average" quickie for us is about 45 minutes. I could see us realistically going for 3 hours off and on during the day if we set aside all the necessities that could wait another time. Did I mention Labor Day, 2-1/2 weeks ago we went a little over 6 hours total in over 5 sessions? :biggrin1: <-- Yeah, we had nothing on our "to do" list except each other.

 

[Uncutpete]

I have learned to fuck for as long as the woman wants to, and that may be for hours of repeated orgasms on her part, or cumming together in 20 minutes. Getting older helps. You learn your own body and your total sensitivity diminishes a little. But what I learned to do is sense where I was on my way to my orgasm, not just when I was about to cum, but even if I was just starting the approach. That gave me more time to control it, before it was already on me. I control it by use of PC muscles, speed of thrusting, mental concentration and so forth... If it gets too close I switch to oral, or simply just sink in to the hilt and pause thrusting for a few seconds.

I learned all that by a lot of masturbation when I was young, both alone and with friends and partners... trying to keep things going and going. I suggest you do the same

You know, Fleshlight has a product that feels like a vagina enough to use in training yourself to last. The difference of course, is that the emotional part and the wonderful visuals of your partner are not there, but it might be useful in training yourself.

 

[B_subgirrl]

"Average" quickie for us is about 45 minutes. I could see us realistically going for 3 hours off and on during the day if we set aside all the necessities that could wait another time. Did I mention Labor Day, 2-1/2 weeks ago we went a little over 6 hours total in over 5 sessions? :biggrin1: <-- Yeah, we had nothing on our "to do" list except each other.

Show off :biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:.