I would rather have someone ask than to do something creepy. Like today, I was at the Chick Fil A restroom and the urinal was a good ways away from the stall, but if you were leaving the stall, you would have a clear view of the urinal. I was at the urinal and some guy was in the stall. When he was done in there, he just sort of stood there at the door looking at me. I guess he thought I couldn't see (peripheral vision), but I could.
Instead of him being all stalker like, I would have much preferred for him to just ask to see it. Instead, he didn't let me make the decision of whether or not to show him. Hence, the violation.
OK. Lets see it.