OK, so I'm a virgin, right? I've "fooled around" with prolly a dozen or so guys before, but I've never done anal intercourse (and that's my definition of virgin/not virgin for gay folks, take it or leave it). Every time I'm with a dude, the conversation always comes up "Well, are you a top or a bottom," and I'm an honest person so I almost always preface the answer with "I'm not sure since I've not tried either one, but I THINK...." And they almost always laugh me out of bed since I'm 24 years old. I'm just a romantic idealist and have always thought I should wait until I find the "right" guy (doesn't have to be "the one" or "perfect," mind you) to try out the anal thing, but now I am starting to question if that's what I really want. One dude, we'll call him John, said that if you've never done anal, it can be really awkward trying to figure out what to do, etc, etc. And while it would be cute for two young, niave boys who love each other to expirement with their bodies and figure it out together, the reality I know is that the "right" guy will likely have a lot more experience than I currently do. I'm thinking about getting in some "anal practice" with someone since I don't have "Mr. Right" at the moment, and so I can be prepared for amazing sex when I do find him. What do you guys think? Should I stick to my guns and stay a virgin for the course, or get the experience now while I'm still on the hunt? Please discuss amongst yourselfs if you don't mind. Thanks for your responses!