welcome to the site man! I, like you, was in the same situation b/f I discovered this site. I always thought I was on the small size, as the only cocks I had ever seen was in porn. After I discovered this site, I found out that I was not only above average, I was large. Mind you, many on this site are bigger than me (or at least they make claims of being bigger), but I now feel so much better after finding out I was large.