i have always been like this, and i wonder why. whenever someone at a bar or other social places initiated to approach me, the chances are i wont be crazy at all about him. i'd rather hunt for someone who seems cool and less easygoing, less approachable/ and also, in a relationship, once he becomes so sticky on me, i just lose most of my interest of him. and i also feel guity if i led him to a deeper relationship with me. and also, whenever i am asked what sort of guys i like, i just don't know what to respond. it's so hard for me to feel and show affection to anyone. ppl say thats because i have slept too many ppl. is it true. am i cheap? should i see a therapist?