That right there is what depresses me so much about abstinence-only sex education. We regularly see people on this board who actually quote commercial porn as a reliable source on sex. The sheer number of guys who know 'what women want' because they saw it in commercial pornography is frightening.
The big thing that the woman in the video was asking for was to see people who actually want to fuck each other fuck, which has major implications. In the wake of Steubenville, I think people are much more aware now of how dehumanizing sex serves to perpetuate a rape culture. When we're raised being fed a steady-stream of overproduced pornography, it completely dehumanizes the act. When pornography is about people with a real connection actually enjoying each other, it humanizes the act and can actually help develop positive attitudes towards sex.
Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of porn out there where one party is objectified/degraded and it's all totally hot to watch, but that's not what she's complaining about here. D/s porn is amazing, but if you don't have a good foundation in sex education to separate the fantasy, or respect just how strong a submissive really is, I don't think you can even appreciate it.