Hey, all, I'm new here, I just came across the website today. I'm about 7.5" fully erect, but usually only about 3.5"-4" soft, depending on temperature, etc. I'm wondering if this is very unusual? I often appear very small or on the small side of average when soft, but have seen few larger than I when erect. I know "some are showers, some are growers," but I'm curious as to how drastically different others' sizes are from soft to erect.