I am new here so go easy. Could someone point me in the right direction for info on how i can make sex less painfull for me when my girlfriend is on top. Anatomically we are almost a perfect fit its just when she is on top, her body weight is not only bending me but the head of my penis feels like its been pounded by something hard and bony. She does not complain of any pain herself in this position. I think this is unusual perhaps because past girlfriends have not enjoyed my length due to hitting the cervix. My partner is very petite & athletic but no longer has any concerns about my size. We always use lots of lube. She really enjoys this position as opposed to some others and i would like to enjoy it with her but its difficult when your getting mashed. Has any body else had this situation. I am curious to know what it could be that causes me pain and discomfort and not her & can anything be done ? Cheers for the welcome. I will look around your site in the meantime.